Should I add his phone number? He'd see it?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I've had a crush on a guy I've known for over 10 years (we're nieghbours and grew up together). He's super cute to me and know he had a crush on me back in the day. Long story short I got his phone number from someone I know and I wonder if I should add him to me contact list (he's in relationship with his cheating ex). (I'm not from the US and in my country there's an app where u can see all the names you've been called in someone's phone list, he has it and he'll for see if I add him name) would I look desparate for adding his number? But on the other hand we talk and we've grown up together. What should I do? Do i add his number or not? by the way his bd is coming up and I wonder if I should congratulate him via whatsapp

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He moved in with his girlfriend wth! What should I do

[spartan55]

Why don't you just ask him for his number and pretend like you don't already have it? You won't look desperate that's so stupid.

[Asker]

What if he'd ask why?

[spartan55]

Make something up. Someone breaking into his apartment, the building is flooding, whatever. If you've known each other ten years it's very weird that you don't have each other's numbers.

[Asker]

Maybe I should just go for it and add him without asking for it? Like what would he do to me. I know he likes me. Should I congratulate him for his bd?

[spartan55]

Bd... ?

[Asker]

Birthday, sorry. English isn't my native language

[spartan55]

That's OK. Yes, definitely give him birthday wishes, maybe even a small gift.

[Asker]

He moved in with his girl. Should I still add his number?

[Anonymous]

You should add it. by the way which app let's you see how people saved your contact?

[Asker]

Unfortunately it doesn't work outside my country's borders

[Asker]

He moved in with his girl should I still add his number?