My husband doesn't want me hanging out with a particular friend. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

My husband has complained about my friend telling me I shouldn't hang out with her. I asked him why and he said "She's Trouble". This sucks because I like her. However, to be fair, she does act too single when we are out in public. For a little bit of background information, one night we were on a girl's night out. She wore something sexy that showed off her body, which is fine. However, the way she was taking drinks from other guys, and flirting back with other guys was questionable. Her husband is such a good guy and it made me question why she would do that. I'm stuck because I wanna respect my husband, but I also really like her as a friend. What should I do?

[_Maya_]

I actually agree with your husband on this one. Normally I don't like when people become controlling but reading through the details the one part that sticks out is the part that she is married and flirting with guys. Showing her body off to people and leading them on for drinks is ridiculous. He is right and she is trouble. You don't want to find yourself one night having one too many drinks and saying what the hell and joining her with her flirting while you are married. I have seen one extra drink do that to people (I'm a bartender). So while you can still be friends control the situation. Don't hang out with her if it is going to be a club/bar type scene where you know she is going to be like that. You also don't want to be a party to her antics if she gets caught. Her husband is going to wonder why you allowed it even if he knows deep down you had no control.

[dustybiker2]

Sounds like your husband cares about you. You are an adult and can make your own choices.

[HotManPlayboy]

Just go on a night out with that friend like you're single for the last time 😂😂✌🏻✌🏻

[jahaims]

Stop spending time with low quality people obviously

[Enes38]

It's a really bad situation but your friend could be more careful

[MacDaddyRico]

You don't need friends like her.
Listen to your husband.