It's a ldr and he stopped contacting whenever I argue / refuse to virtual sex with him?

[Anonymous]

It's a been seven months now in LDR and the way he is behaving is make me feel anxious, I asked him many time to meetup before marriage he said it's enough to do video calls and messages, he traveled abroad and didn't tell I knew by my self, also he hide on me that he suffers from dyslexia! Whenever he asked for something and I refuse he stopped contacting me for three days/ day then he back like nothing happened.

Last time he asked for nude photos I refused and I told him that I'm not basic girl try to show some respect, he stopped contacting again then I send him that I don't wanna to move on with you anymore he replied how are you, what you up to?

I'm I dealing with a narcissist? Is there any wrong with me?

[SueShe]

From his behavior towards you when he realizes that you are not willing to send nudes, I do believe that he is not really serious with you and does not see the future the same way you do.

The fact that he finds excuses not to meet with you and that he pouts like a small kids also is a warning sign. That is pure toxicity and also the fact that he is hiding important health factors like dyslexia from you leads me to believe that he did not mean to plan a future with you.

If he was serious, then those facts would have been among the first ones to reveal in order for you to make a decision based on important life facts whether you are willing to take the risk to get married to him.

There is definitely nothing wrong with you but he is secretive and possibly narcissistic as well. Take your distance from him while you still can.

[Asker]

I appreciate your input, thank you very much

[SueShe]

no problem. Good luck.

[SugarSugarplum]

Men like peace, agreeableness, and sex. He's going to find someone local for those things.

[Asker]

already has a marriage failure, he want to proceed to marriage without checking on him personally! Means he is no confidence to date on his area physically

[Asker]

Sorry for the typo, he has no confidence

[BarryLiverstone]

Sugar is right.

[molonski2]

Well said , my thoughts exactly -- just too hard.

[Iron_Man]

That guy doesn’t want to meet in person. He just wants to play around on the Internet sexually

[RedInnocent69]

Bail now. It won’t last. He’s probably already got someone else. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Oh dear, is this what life has come down for some poor sods?

[In_Trance]

Gong show