Why do guys only want sex and get mad if you deny sex?

[Sugar100]

I can’t find a guy that wants a partner.

All year, guys just talk of sex , and I clearly say I’m looking for a serious relationship & guys get mad as I deny sex 😞

no guy ever has talked to me about meeting family, or want take me on many dates enjoy my company. No guy shows desire to be in my life.
then I’ll get blocked as I’m firm on denying hookup. 😞 I run away from guys that want sex and they run away from me.

I’m looking all year and looks like another year I’ll be hallow and empty holidays watching my family show up to the party with their husband blissful happy in life & me alone.

I think no guy exists for me. 😞

[MrOracle]

My experience tells me that you are almost certainly rejecting "relationship men" out of hand and trying to pursue only the TOP guys - the ones who are really attractive, popular, and high-status - the ones all the other girls also want. The problem with that is that the top guys don't do relationships - they only want girls for casual sex, and they're popular enough to get it - if not from you, then from one of the hundred other girls who are trying to get their attention right now.

"Relationship men" tend not to be as attractive or popular or high-status - because if they were, then they'd only want casual sex too. But these men are invisible to you because you've taught yourself to filter them out, because you don't find them attractive. You've had the idea of being with one of the hot, popular guys and "relationship men" just don't fit that image in your head.

Assuming this is true (remember, I don't know you, and I could be wrong, but it's SUCH a common thing that I'm likely right), then you're going to need to figure out what your priorities are, and take action accordingly.

[Sugar100]

I like nerdy ugly guys. Not hot model guys.

[MrOracle]

Well, that's probably better. They're more likely to be down to earth and will deal with directness from you better. When you meet a guy where you feel some mutual interest, let them know that you aren't looking for anything casual, only committed relationships, and that any dating that happens will be with that in mind, and there's no sex until a relationship has been established. That way, guys will either say "no thanks" and move on right away, or they'll be receptive to a relationship should one develop between you. Yes, this eliminates "hopefuls", but that's a good thing: it keeps you from wasting much time on guys whose life goals aren't in alignment with yours, and leaves you free for the guys whose life goals ARE aligned with yours.

[Sugar100]

Yea but all men reject me and no guy likes me back. 😔 never met a guy that wants be my boyfriend. Just one guy but it’s someone super super ugly that I cannot force mylsef have sex with , even my mom said he’s extremely ugly.

[Sugar100]

Zero attraction.

[Sugar100]

I gave one ugly guy a chance but he was the same he only wanted sex so we never met. I’m
Alone no guy wants date me nothing. No guy wants me.

[MrOracle]

Okay. We're getting somewhere now.

You need to find out what the men you are interested are looking for in a woman. I strongly suspect that you THINK you know what they want, but that in reality, they are looking for and value completely different things than you think they do - and you are probably NOT the things they are looking for. Having said that, most of the things that they're looking for will be things you CAN change about yourself if you choose.

Giving a woman a relationship commitment is a very risky and expensive exercise for a man, and so men want some value in return - they want some things in the woman that THEY value, whether or not she thinks they're important. And if you want to be in a relationship, you have to provide that value, or men are just going to pass.

If you wanted to be a doctor, but you hadn't gone to college, much less medical school, you wouldn't be surprised if no one would hire you as a doctor - you have to put in the work to become qualified. This is no different. Men always have to put in the work to qualify, so it's no different that you have to do the same.

[FunkyMonkee]

I just answered the same question last night.
BECAUSE THEY'RE ASSHOLES!! THOSE are the guys you SHOULDN'T be fucking!! They don't care about you!! You're just another piece of pussy, to them!! When you fuck `em, they got what they wanted and don't need you anymore!! You're just another notch on their love gun!! But, that's the kind of guys girls wanna fuck11 They won't TOUCH us nice guys!! they only want us around to become their emotional tampon after Mr. Asshole breaks their heart... AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN!! Because girls NEVER LEARN!!!

[Sugar100]

I talked to guys all night on a church dating app and they all got mad I denied sex. I kept saying I want a first boyfriend or serious relationship and they don’t care. That’s why I asked this question.

[Sugar100]

Can’t find a guy that wants be my boyfriend.

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, there ya go! that's what I just said.

[FunkyMonkee]

And, I can't find a girl that wants to be MY girlfriend!!

[Sugar100]

I told one guy I don’t have a boyfriend because they treat me bad and one guy I dated long time I thought he was my boyfriend but no he used me , didn’t take pics dent meet family , hide me, tell everyone he’s single. So I’m scared don’t want same time happen to me aagin.

He said haha don’t worry lol

[Sugar100]

Then he disappeared. Before that he was forcing me go at night for sex to his house and lied called me his girlfriend

[FunkyMonkee]

You girls really know how to pick `em!!

[Sugar100]

I didn’t pick him. It was just a guy that texted me first

[Sugar100]

Even ugly guys don’t want be my boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I try give ugly guys a chance and it’s same they want sex and no girlfriend

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, that's a GOOD thing! Who wants an ugly guy for a boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

People say I need go for ugly guy to get a boyfriend. But that’s not true lol

[FunkyMonkee]

Correct!!

[Anonymous]

I don't know what to tell you. I'm not sure where relationship or marriage-minded men exist either. There seems to be an overabundance of men who only want sex and nothing more. Don't settle. It sucks being single but what's worse is if you get involved with one of these men who only want meaningless sex encounters and hope that one day he's going to suddenly change his mind and want a serious relationship and marriage with you. It never happens and you end up with a broken heart.

[Twalli]

Marriage minded men exist, we're with girls who want the same thing.

[katiesmuff]

WOW! You need to find a new fishing ground as the type of guy you are looking for are not that hard to find in the right places.

[Sugar100]

I can’t find any guy for me

[MisterWack]

I mean… Could it be that men get mixed messaging from you. I’d say that GAG profile you have is a bit sexually suggestive…

[Sugar100]

lol I like my profile Icon with the lips 😂

[MisterWack]

@Sugar100 I’m not meaning to offend or attack or blame, sorry. Happy you love it, that explains why you chose it. I love my default profile icon so, I don’t change it.

[ohsheeT]

I think it sucks but that's why most men get in relationships they might like the girl. But they don't love the girl and they get into that relationship for convenience I think I don't understand why because when you're with somebody you're with them 100% ... And you build from that..

I've been in those type of relationships before to where it was more about the sex than the relationship and if you're going to be in a relationship being at 100% And the sex is just 10 times 1,000 times better

For me I haven't had sex for a while which really sucks but I would rather be in that one relationship where. It is a real relationship and I can become one with that person because in the sex is just unreal beautiful but first you have to be in that relationship

And then once you're in the relationship and you start having sex she's going to want to have sex all the time too because when you make her feel the way that you're going to make her feel she's going to start craving that feeling becoming one with you so I don't know I don't understand why guys do that

[Sugar100]

Yes if you have a girlfriend you would have sex all the time with the girl so friends with benefits is stupid to me.

[Sugar100]

I want attend family functions all year blissfully with a guy , not meet for sex and no one in his family know I exist that’s miserable life so horribel

[ohsheeT]

No I understand exactly what you're saying I mean you want that connection because it's just a hundred times more meaningful than anything else

[Sugar100]

I just want experience it for once In my life before I’m 30 I have 2 years left can’t get a boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I might never experience it as I lost interest for men I don’t look for men anymore what’s point talk to men if they will tell me they don’t want be my boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

Maybe my destiny is be alone forever. Love don’t exist for me 😞

[RavVid]

Yes, nearly every guy would be happy with just getting sex from a girl. And to a large degree that is all they give as no fault unilateral divorces proves they don't do 'till death do us part anymore' - that is off the table.

However in the 30's men become more interested in relationships. Probably you would do better with somewhat older men. Are you just waiting for men to come to you or are you being proactive in reaching out?

[Sugar100]

Older men treat me bad and don’t want a girlfriend. The guy I dated in my life for long time he use me for sex he was 33 wen we broke up last year. However he was neevr my boyfriend , he told everyone he is single and I thought he was my boyfriend 😓

[Sugar100]

All men I pursue reject me. I talk to men first and I’m rejected. That’s why I never had a boyfriend and will be 27. I met 20 men yesterday on a church dating all and app only wanted sex and don’t want be my boyfriend. I can’t even get a date as no guy asks me for date, they want force me meet for sex and get mad. U can’t win them.

[Sugar100]

They get mad asi say I don’t want friends with benefits too.

[RavVid]

I don't know what to say. I entirely understand your view - you basically don't want to be a girl that is pumped and dumped. You want it to be within in a relationship. Certainly there are guys who are relationship oriented.

As a whole women have decided to upend all the past mating strategies. Even marrying for love is relatively recent and dates from the early 1800 women's magazine. Said magazines decried women who married for resources and were accused of letting the sisterhood down in the phrasing of that time.

So romantic marriages are only about a 200 yo concept. In tribal days, tribes would meet and exchange. Some times the girls would be exchanged and sometimes the boys would be exchanged. The price of sex for most of human existence has been marriage in some form. Women rigorously enforced this deal for the most part.

Till now... They have broken it in a couple of ways. As a whole women are now promiscuous and quite happy to have sex with men without any commitment on either parties part.

The second way it has been broken is that women don't offer 'till death do us part deals' anymore. Nearly all marriages are terminated by the wife in a no fault unilateral divorce and it costs the husband most of all he has and will have.

Men are sentient and the response to these circumstances are fairly obvious. Take sex as it is available and avoid long term relationships. In particular, avoid impregnating women. Get a DNA test if she does get pregnant.

[RavVid]

So this is what you are seeing. I doubt hookup culture gives either gender what they want other than short duration fun. Women, when they want to have children still do seem to want marriage but 50% are only willing to be married for 8 years. The male response you see is the only sensible response to current social mores which have been chosen by women.

Your experience is convincing me that it is all quite forlorn. The only poor sliver of advice I can suggest is that lower value men might value you more and offer you what you want most - a relationship and marriage.

Sadly though i am expecting you to respond saying that doesn't work either.

[Sugar100]

Even ugly guys don’t want a girlfriend and only sex.

[RavVid]

That is what I was expecting you to say. It's broken.

The most religious woman I know is down to short term monogamous relationships. She goes from guy to guy serially.

[Sugar100]

All I wanted was a first boyfriend for one year at least but in condtion he meets families, arrives to family parties with me, spends cmas with me take pics on all dates. Then break up. But no guy wants do this for me either

[Sugar100]

I wanted experience all that before I’m 30

[RavVid]

I've got one more suggestion. I'm wondering if you are stressed with guys? There is a bit under your covers in that you are wanting a boyfriend intently, scared of just being used for sex. So I could see you will have some tension in you.

Thinking about how I react to women, I am more attracted to those who are relaxed and reluctant towards those who seem tense. If somebody asks us for something we almost automatically say no. It is different when somebody offers to give us something.

Do you feel stressed when you are meeting guys is my question

[Sugar100]

We’ll I only met 3 guys in my life. Like 2 of those actually date and kiss , one guy I dated 7 years but he deny meet family deny pics with me. He confessed after 7 years that he has love for me but he’s not in love with me. He Only used me for sex.

The second guy is this new guy. He is first guy to treat me good he’s oposite of ex, but he’s quiet he don’t text me daily, he don’t talk in person or in text. & he’s long distance. But we have a lot in comon. He has a house & works full time.

But next wk I will tell him that I’m not looking for friends with benefits & want relationship & think he wants friends with benefits and see what he says.

It’s hard tell if he would date me as we don’t live near each other everyday.

And the 3rd guy , is a guy at job that I felt as my soulmate. But we met at job and Weren’t able exhange numbers and we got fired same month. I’m hoping he rehired back for holidays and we meet again.

[Sugar100]

But my point is no wen I met those guys I wasn’t stressed.

I’m stressed and cry alone at home as I would feel peace security bliss if I had a label as girlfriend and we met family.

[Sugar100]

But I’ve talked to 500 guys all year online , and in person everyday see guys in public. But I act normal.

I would only look stressed here on gag

[Sugar100]

I’m trying be more relaxed , maybe somehow I look stresed at times to men.

But how im supposed to be happy if I’m not living with a boyfriend having sex daily meeting family and I’m happy? Lol no I’m alone with mom stressed all the time.

[RavVid]

What quite a few guys have said here is there are guys who are interested in building relationship with a girl and I think the same. So to help you I am looking at myself and how I react to women.

Those girls who have their tits out and are dressed very sexually - note I say sexually not sexy - I will enjoy looking at but view with contempt.

There are bright effervescent girls who are always gong to get male attention, but there are girls who are not so bright & effervescent but give the impression that they will be happy and easygoing if you talk to them. The majority - to me - would seem to be uptight/stressed. It is not as if they will bite your head off if you do and might be quite polite. My reaction is am not going to get far with them.

It is the second group that I am going to put more effort in with because they are willing to put effort in me or make me think so. The bright & effervescent are entertaining but are all over the shop and easily (distracted from me). The uptight girls I'm not going to get much back from. So the easy going girls are more the sweet spot to me.

Putting it another way, with tits out girls I am most likely going to think "I'd give her one". With the uptight girls I'll think "She is going to be hard work". With the more easy going girls I might think "She'd make a good girlfriend". Perhaps not for me but I do occasionally think that shortly after meeting. You need men to think that.

Probably dating apps, church mixers are the worst place to meet because it is inherently about sex. I feel more enabled to ask if you give sex on a first date. It is then a matter of churning through enough girls to find one that says yes.

There are guys who say they don't have the social skills to talk/approach girls. Your problem might be analogous to that. Do you only talk to guys when they might be potential boyfriends?

[Sugar100]

Since I was 13 I am always the one that makes first move I talk to all guys I like.

Wen I deny sex on first date, men Disapear. So can’t even get a date. The only one guy that took me for frist date was a fuckboy a guy that used me for sex don’t want marriage deny meet family deny pic with me for 7 years and counting.

[Sugar100]

How my life will progress as no guy moves next level with me? I don’t do friends with benefits. I’m seeing long distance guy since March. We shud be meeting family August, sep go to fmaily event together, ocotber go with me for bday trip, nov ask move in together. That’s how my life shud be in a real relationship but no. Like always I’ll be closer to 30 and never enter a relationship

I’m ready begin a relationship but guys aren’t willing so guys hav my life stuck.

[Sugar100]

I did meet 2 guys on the church dating app that want wife relationship, live together , one wants a cruise together with me next year, but I don’t like any of them.

[RavVid]

OK. Why don't you like either of these two guys? Not saying you should but I think what you would reject is instructive. Is it physical appearance. Is it personality. Is it character?

What type of guy do you approach? When you do approach what do you say? What environment are you in? If I went up to a girl and said "You're cute. Whats your number" I would most likely get rebuffed as I am immediately asking for personal details and I could stalk. Instead of asking what her name is I can I can say "I'm Bill by the way" and she is odds on to reply with her name so next time I will greet her by name.

I had to practice my social skills and took any opportunity to talk to women. You might be putting the guy off in your approach. And it might be helpful to have short conversations with any guy. If I see a girl talking to a number of guys I get the impression she is approachable, so I might.

Something isn't working, so something needs to change is the point.

If

[OfMiceandMen]

I think you need to change-up your ideal guy. Go a little less on the appearance scale and seek out some guys that have some class.

If you are expecting to meet him at a bar, good luck, that's where all the guys go that are looking for sex, same as online dating services.

[BullShark]

You've probably heard this already but maybe it's not the guys' fault entirely but actually you who's out there looking for the wrong kind of guys who just date for sex and one-time hookups.

There are plenty of good guys out there who still believe in love and are actively looking for women to date to have a healthy relationship with and not just sex. Keep trying

[MysticDevice]

You're talking to boys.

You need to talk to Men. We're out there. Most of us are at work though.

But I promise you there is no shortage of good men who want what you're looking for.

I'm having the same problem with women. They're "Not looking for anything they're just bored."

[SweetJoyGirl]

What he said. ^

[dragoblack]

Look for the demi-sexuals and demi-romantics. They want relationships, but like you said people want sex, so they have a hard time finding someone who will put the effort in to get to know them.
As for the D-bags that buy butthurt from being denied. It's because they are super insecure

[Sugar100]

I would have sex if someone finally says do u want be my girlfriend and plan I meet his family but since this never happens my life can’t progress. No guy wants to do this for me. It’ll give me bliss happiness feel secure

[dragoblack]

I'm saying you're looking in the wrong places for romance. Try finding group meetups with people that have common interests. Maybe even try speed dating events

[Sugar100]

I found 2 guys that want wife live together , but I don’t like them no interst

[Sugar100]

It’ll be difficult find the guy I love also want the same things as me.

[dragoblack]

That's the difficulty with todays dating society, people have changed due to how the abusive and self-entitled many women have been to men, and with the part of society that shames men for just being themselves, men have basically shut down when it comes to dating and changed to short term romance and hookups. But, because it has changed to that, finding mutual attraction is incredibly difficult compared to how it used to be, when the actual long term dating pool is so small.

[Sugar100]

I just now lost interest to meet men I don’t like any guy. I’ve been looking for a boyfriend since all year. I even feel sick at thought look for more guys.

Since guys don’t ask to be their girlfriend fast in few dates , in one week, It don’t interest me waste my time hanging out with a guy many months and never getting tittle of girlfriend moving progressing in the relationship.

It’s happeend to me before that I’m scared now.
It don’t interst me hav a guy confess feelings til 7-10 years. It’s boring it bores me if a guy don’t ask fast in few days to be his girlfriend & stsrt relationshio blissful all year.

[Sugar100]

The only guy I like is the guy I’m seeing rn but it’s long distance and I have no title as girlfriend so I’m stressed all day confused wondering alone in my head wen wel meet family & me mylsef planing in my head daydreaming of meeting family next month or by Christmas.

Just a fantasy no one wants to fullfill

[Sugar100]

I’m stuck livig with my mom at age 26 becuz no guy is my boyfriend asking to live together , I don’t want be 30 Childress living with mom

[dragoblack]

Have you ever just asked him if he wants to take that step?
i know women dont like to take the initiative when it comes to romance and be straightforward, but with dating society becoming the way it is, women need to drop the mentality, that men have to be the ones take that initiative.

With all of those years the extreme feminist have abused and ragged on guys, while the actual feminists kept demanding equality, it has pushed the males in society to this point where they are starting to see the equality they were fighting for and not knowing what all it entailed. ... Which entails women not sitting back when it comes to romance and letting the males bus the whole dating process, while women sit back and enjoy being waited on and every paid for.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, some guys just want sex, but many guys are looking for a serious relationship. I'm one of those guys, except that I found her and married her on April 27. MAYBE there is a problem with what you are doing to find/locate/attract guys.

[Sugar100]

Yea but I always see guys as the one and they don’t love me back. It’s easy for a guy say I found the one as men can propose als girl to be his girlfriend and girls can’t. Girls have no power. I wait 27 years and no guys ask me to be his girlfriend.

I want be a boy I would of asked a girl already to be my girlfriend since I was 18 and propsoed to her at 23 😞 girls have no power

[OlderAndWiser]

You are as powerless as you want to be. And if you want to see yourself as powerless, maybe that is why guys don't chase after you.

[Sugar100]

Me denying sex til Im
In real relationship don’t Make men chase me and ask to be his girlfriend. They run away

[Sugar100]

Men have all the power

[82lynx]

I think the men who just want tonnes of lays are also really loud about what they want. It certainly makes it seem like that’s what almost all men want, which in turn makes me feel like I’m considered a predator by association.

[Alex-Snow]

You are correct in that all guys want sex but many also want a relationship. Just make it known to any prospects up front that you are not into casual sex or having a fuckbuddy.

[Sugar100]

Yea but if I say I don’t do casual sex or friends with benefits, I’ll end up getting negaitve response and they say they don’t want girlfriend and I end up never having a girlfriend. I never have moved next level with guy, meeting family planing that nothing. 😞

I will tell this guy I’m seeing since March that’s long distance I don’t do friends with beenfits and I fear I’ll get a negative response and rejection again for 27 years of my life. 😓

[Anonymous]

If I were engaged, I would not demand that my partner have sex with me every time, the only imperative thing is that she must be willing to supplement my kinks, otherwise I end up cheating on her and then I leave her.

[JesseP1nk]

Its because guy may think "oh you had sex with that and this person, but you put me on hold like a sucker" How would you feel if a person you are intrested in, is having sex ALL the other people BUT not with you.

[Twalli]

If you refuse sex you won't find a guy easily. Most guys aren't looking for a sexless relationship. You'd have to find a guy who has psonful erections.

[Sugar100]

Wait if I have sex and guy neebr meets family all year and then uses me for friends with benefits how is that a girlfriend? one guy date me 7 years and I thought he was my boyfriend but no he say he’s single to everyone and he use me he deny pics with me deny meet family. 😓

[Twalli]

That's fully possible, but guys want sex in the presence of a relationship. It will be hard to find a guy that is seeking a sexless relationship.

[Sugar100]

I just am scared I want a relationship to progress not sex all year never meet family and guy hide me 😞 that’s my fear it already happeend

[Sugar100]

I date one guy many years and he waste my time I thought he was my boyfriend but no he say he’s single and hide me sent pics deny meet family use me for sex

[Sugar100]

So I’m scared new guy will be same want sex all year and I’m confused if he’s my boyfriend or not and he neevr Asks to meet family 😞

[Twalli]

Tell a guy you want to wait. My girlfriend and I waited a bit over 6 months. Technically we had sex before our parents met, but we had already met each other's parents.

[Sugar100]

Guys don’t wait they would just stop pursing me.

[Sugar100]

No guy ask to be his girlfriend either

[Sugar100]

No guy plans meet family with me. I never hear guy say do u want meet my family?

[Sugar100]

It’s just a fantasy in my head to meet a guys family

[Twalli]

If you aren't asked to beat girlfriend then no guy is waiting. If a guy wants to date you, he'll wait for a time. You have to find a guy who wants to date you to find a guy willing to wait for a time.

[Sugar100]

So I need comitt and hav sex with a guy I don’t like? I want be with a guy I like 😔 the guys I like are ugly nerdy guys and they r same want sex.

[Sugar100]

How I’ll get a boyfriend if no guy asks me to be his girlfriend?

[Sugar100]

I’m not seeking sexless relationship I just don’t want feel like friends with benefits. And meeting family would give me this security and peace and bliss. Also 27 years I never met a guys family , no guy wants make this dream come true

[Sugar100]

That’s y with this new guy I’m seeing , it’s long distance but still it would look bad Sep to Dec we don’t meet family as it’s holidays and holidays r special time of the year. He’ll just say to family he’s single and I’m an outsider don’t exist?

[Twalli]

You could ask guys out.

[Sugar100]

I did that last wk and the guy say I’m weird.

[Sugar100]

& reject me.

[Twalli]

So you decided to never do that again? Now you get why guys don't like doing it.

[Sugar100]

I have a question. Wut if I tell this guy I don’t want friends with benefits and want relationship and he respond positively and say he don’t want friends with benefits but still don’t ask to be his girlfriend? and we continue meet all year for sex and date/ eat like couple?

[Sugar100]

Is that a boyfriend?

[Twalli]

I would consider it a boyfriend, but I approach relationships differently

[Sugar100]

I would still feel like I’m a friends with benefits if we don’t meet family in one year.
Becuz u would go to your family event, holiday and see everyone arrive with a boyfriend minus u, that would mean your single.

Then your aunt will say to your mom how’s Ashley’s boyfriend? Is he tall, nice?

& mom will say I don't know I never met him.

[Sugar100]

That’s y it’s crucial to meet family. Also family need to know who daugjter is dating

[Sugar100]

But I’ve never had a serious boyfriend. No one wants make this dream come true of meeting parents

[Twalli]

I don't know how to help you. I met my fiancée's mom before we became a couple. I didn't know her mom well, but she knew who I was, she also knew her daughter had a huge crush in me which is probably why she made the point if actually meeting me.

[shortster]

Next time a guy asks for sex; you should ask him to join your OnlyFans. You don't need to start one; but maybe they'll get the hint. Have you tried dating a Mormon?

[Sugar100]

What will that mean? If I say to join my only fans? I can’t date anyone no guys ask for date or show interest in me

[Sugar100]

No guy wants date me get to know me

[shortster]

OnlyFans is a pay for content site.

[noohair]

If a man does not have to make a commitment to a woman to get married to have sex, this is what you get

[Sugar100]

I’ve met 500 men all year and no guys want sex til after marriage.

[Sugar100]

It don’t exist

[LEGENDARY4200]

Not all are like that. Most of what i believe you're talking about is probably a result of guys tired of the teases. So straight to the point

[Sugar100]

Straight to the point of what?

[Sugar100]

Hookup is not a relationship. That will mean they only want sex and use me for sex.

[Sugar100]

Tease of what?

[LEGENDARY4200]

Girls teasing and never actually doing anything

[LEGENDARY4200]

And casual hookups/ friends with benefits are pretty common nowadays

[Sugar100]

So how can I find a boyfriend? I don’t do friends with benefits. Hence I’m rejecting all guys that want sex. I want a serious relationship a first boyfriend

[LEGENDARY4200]

Hmmm, in that aspect, start going to church or something because most people view sex a valuable part of any relationship even if it's only oral or whatever maybe not all the way but something

[Sugar100]

I’m sad becuase I really liked this guy I see him as the one for me, we have a lot in common , he’s like my twin 😞

[Sugar100]

It made me complete thought of seeing him August to state he lives. as I’m willing go live together with him at his state but maybe this won’t even happen and it’s only a dream for me and not for him. Maybe he hav 0 plans ever ask me to live with him.

[LEGENDARY4200]

I'm sorry. Have you told him how you feel?

[Sugar100]

I will tell him soon but I’m crying depresed as I know I’ll get negative reply like I don’t want a girlfriend. I never get good news

[LEGENDARY4200]

Alright good luck

[Enes38]

Why do you always ask the same questions?
I don't think you are sincere

[Enes38]

For example, have you ever thought about who you really give a chance to? This guy is a good guy, why should I give him a chance?

[Sugar100]

How do u know this new guy is a good guy?

[Enes38]

You will try, be sure that good people will reveal themselves.

[Enes38]

Is it better, the person who tries to get you into bed right away, or the person who can't even spare a hair on your hair?

[Sugar100]

I never met a good person

[Enes38]

I don't think you really want this

[Enes38]

Yes I'm listening to you?

[Sugar100]

I’m confused what u are saying

[Enes38]

Never mind, I think good guys will always lose, but I feel sorry for you.

[Sugar100]

I’m very confused why u r saying? Are u trying to say your a good guy?

[Sugar100]

What state do u live at? it’s becuase you are talking berry weird and sarcastic I didn’t understand what u were saying. Good guys don’t lose. I neevr encountered a good guy.

[Enes38]

I can't say I'm a good man, you just want good men, good men deserve you but both sides lose.
Am I a good man? Do you want to decide?

[Enes38]

I live in Türkiye. I'm sorry my English is bad. I understand most of the words using google translate.

[Sugar100]

Lol why do all guys in Turkey have no girlfriend. I’ve encountered 10 guys from Turkey already on here that don’t hav a girlfriend

[Enes38]

We are looking for true love, that's why we don't be with anyone until we meet the right person. 😅

[Enes38]

Where do you live

[Evamee]

My boyfriend did that like I was to do it whenever he wanted

[historectomy]

Not all guys, but if it is long distance than prolly a lot of guys

[jahaims]

That's just low quality guys. They get mad because they are low quality

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why women only want sex and money and get mad if you deny sex and money

[Taylor22424]

There's something you aren't telling us.

Your leading some of the men on.

[Rockey_the_bicker]

Sex is awesome,, some girls also love sex more than guys do

[MrGSpotHer]

Then only look for men who do

[Sugar100]

I can’t , I keep looking and can’t find someone that wants a relationship

[MrGSpotHer]

Same for me I only found girlfriend when I was younger I'm probably to difficult now I'm used to being weird 😆

[Sugar100]

How did u find a girlfriend, it’s easy for men have a girlfriend cuz men are the ones that hav power to ask girl do u want be my girlfriend? And they r the ones that give ring to girl. Girsl can’t do anything.

[MrGSpotHer]

Most of my friends were female it used to just happen

[Awantika03]

Not all guys such type

[MasterKS]

you growing wrong expectations!

[Boulemakh]

They feel entitled