Should I confront this guy about this supposedly jokes or just let it go?

[Anonymous]

He always likes to joke around with me to the point where it’s like an aggressive joke or something kinda mean, like for instance I have been working today I’ve been very busy he goes has she been working all she been doing is standing around and talking he goes and tells that to the other worker he just laughed it off and earlier also like similar stuff to that why is he being this way

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's not really cool of him to be constantly making jokes at your expense, especially when they're kinda mean-spirited. I don't think he's really joking either if he's saying that stuff to other people too instead of just you. That's crossing a line. You don't deserve to be disrespected like that, especially at work. I think you should definitely say something to him, even if it's just asking him politely to knock it off. You can say the "jokes" aren't funny and are kind of hurtful, so could he please find a new way to interact that doesn't put you down. If he gives you attitude or doesn't take it seriously, then I'd let your boss or whoever's in charge know what's been going on too, so they're aware. You shouldn't have to put up with that kind of rude behavior every day. Stand up for yourself - you've done nothing wrong! If he's a decent person he'll apologize and stop. And if not, at least you tried addressing it before letting it get worse or fester. You've got this!

[Asker]

Why do you think he be a thing this way

[spartan55]

Awfully sensitive aren't you?

[Asker]

I mean how would you feel

[spartan55]

I would feel like a response ripping him would be appropriate.

[Asker]

Wym by that

[Asker]

The thing with him is he is very confusing like he will aproach me sometimes he all nice like say good job etc and other days act like an ass so I don't know how I’m supposed to even react to him like why is he acting differently some days

[spartan55]

This is why guys and girls can't be friends.

[Asker]

So why he be like that

[Asker]

What’s it gotta do with my question

[spartan55]

Like what? He sounds like a typical normal guy.

[Asker]

Yea?

[Asker]

His little jokes like y

[Asker]

Than like earlier today he saw me talk to this guy and after stops me and said so who was that guy you was talking too like okay?

[spartan55]

Why is this all bugging you so much? It's really weird tbh.

[Asker]

Bc his being weird

[spartan55]

I mean, are you friends with him?

[Asker]

Like I’m trying to understand his problem

[spartan55]

It doesn't sound like he's being weird to me.

[Asker]

Okay so what does it sound like he want from me bc clearly he can’t leave me alone

[spartan55]

Probably nothing, just bored, and chooses you to bug.

[Asker]

Oksy

[spartan55]

You must like him.