My friend and I had planned to go eat dinner together. He told me his off days are Saturday and Sunday. And that's usually when we'd see each other. This time he decided we should go out Friday evening around 630. I was caught up helping my mom that evening and texted him when i got home around 620. I told him i needed to shower n stuff. He said no worries take ur time. An hour and a half later I was ready. I looked really nice and he texted me asking if everything was alright. I was kind of confused why he asked cus it had only been 1 hour 30 mins but I said yeah I just finished I'm ready to come. Then I asked if he was working the next morning because of the fact that he seemed concerned about the time. He said yeah and decided to reschedule. It really hurt my feelings cus I felt like I got ready just for him to blow me off. And he didn't tell me he had to work, as far as I knew sat n Sunday are his off days. So I said ok what day? He pushed it all the way to next week... I just feel like he doesn't want to see me or something. Should I ask him why he's working on his off days and mention how I disappointing it is that we had to cancel? Or should I just try to see him next week no questions? Sigh..
Tell him. That way this doesn't continue to be an ongoing problem. Chances are he doesn't know how much it work it takes to get ready and that you were really excited about it. You could do this in the best way possible, and focus on how much you looked forward to being with him. This might give you the ability to know what happened too and better handle it. Just keep cool about it when mentioning it and it will be fine.
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The only thing you could have done different is to let him know how you would take getting ready. Tbh 90 minutes is pretty long time to get ready. I don't understand how that was 'too late' for him. I would definitely mention the fact that he said he had Saturday and Sundays off. This guy is just a friend?
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Seriously. You got your feelings hurt. This is why women can’t run this world on their own because simple things like this hurt their feelings. An hour and a half to me seems like a long time. Were you going to a fancy place or something? Besides he’s your friend. Not even your boyfriend. If it bothers you that much than let him know. He doesn’t have an obligation to you. You’re almost 40 this should t even be an issue.
You both are just friends right?
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