Why is he acting desperate now that I am ignoring him?

[Anonymous]

He treated me like trash for over a year. I was on the back burner. I am a virgin and he is a promiscuous man. I finally decided to forget him. He is apparently in an open relationship and has been sending me messages on different social media. I don't reply and then he sends me a new message saying "hey sorry." "Today is my birthday, aren't you going to wish me a happy bday." Yet he never ever wished me on mine.

Yet he says he only feels lust for me and can't be with me. I am so over this toxic man. Why do they always want you when you've finally moved on? I really hope he learns his lesson

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man girl, this guy sounds like nothing but trouble! I'm not surprised at all he's acting desperate now - that's how these toxic guys always operate. He had you on the back burner for so long, getting whatever attention and ego boost he wanted from you without giving anything real in return. And now that you've finally moved on and stopped giving him that, of course he's freaking out! It hurts his pride to see you don't need him anymore. Saying he only feels "lust" for you is such BS - he wants to keep you hanging on just in case, even though he'll never actually commit. You were right to cut him off, he doesn't deserve any more of your time or energy after treating you so badly for so long! Don't let him reel you back in with his fake apologies and excuses. You'll never get the respect from him that you deserve. Keep focusing on yourself and being happy without him. The best revenge is living well and proving you don't need a jerk like that. Soon he'll move onto his next victim and you'll be so glad you didn't waste anymore time on him!

[ChicoFromThe305]

You are doing the right thing, just keep moving on, you chillin

[Anonymous]

Can't you see what a loser this guy really is?

[spartan55]

Learned a lesson? Doubt it.

[Asker]

What is the best revenge for these type of people? He just uses women

[spartan55]

None. He doesn't care.