If a guy friend asks you what kinda guy I want, what am I looking for in a guy yet was the one who showed me interest does it mean he never liked me?

[Anonymous]

He showed me interest never asked me about guys nothing about me dating just once asked if I was single yet a year passed he was like so what kinda guy you want a guy hair to the side blue and blue eyes etc I’m like thinking why you care like as if he will help me find him, he used me be jealous when I talked to guys what’s up with this guy?

[itsannalee]

He just wants you to like him without commitment. So what he wants is just keep you to keep on his side, but don’t want u as a girlfriend.


He is weird….
Sometimes people like him can ruins your relationship if u meet other guy. I had friend like him, and always told me that my boyfriend is cheat on me. etc

[Asker]

Well maybe but he is actually (married) also but than he was like and you can go to team 3 and meet a guy there after he asked me what kinda guy I’m looking for

[Asker]

So I doubt he wants me to like him

[Asker]

Just not sure why he care to ask what kinda guy I’m looking for

[Asker]

Than few days passed he saw me talking to this guy and was like who was that guy you was talking to and than he was like ohhh you got a guy? And tried to announce it at loud in front of people I don’t understand him

[DishLady]

He's just talking to you! Geez, cool your jets, will you? Not everyone who speaks to you is hitting on you. If a year went by, that's your big hint. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Never said he was trying to hit on me

[CuriousHubby]

He is just weird and a stalker! He wants you to describe him.

Don't and don't hang out with him. He has shown big red flags before he won't ever settle for friends!

In his mind your a couple already and he will apply anything you say to himself in his head!

[Asker]

Nah I don’t think so he is also taken so that’s why I’m like why does it even concern him, than he was like maybe you should go to different team you will meet a guy there like bro what

[CuriousHubby]

Ooo cringe ew! Sounds more like he wants his girlfriend to be lesbian with you for him!
Just a oid him he is messed up

[Asker]

Oh you think he trying to make me want him?

[CuriousHubby]

At least wanting him some what!

[Asker]

Nah maybe he letting me know his not interested in me and asked what guy I’m interested in?

[CuriousHubby]

When has a man ever really done that but in romance books?

[Asker]

What you trying to say

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he is shy and can't bring himself to take the first step, but is asking you questions to see if he might be the kind of guy you want.

[Asker]

He doesn’t have the features he described a guy

[OlderAndWiser]

So he is lacking in self-confidence, assuming that he is not your type.

[spartan55]

Still with this guy? Why do you have to 'understand' him? That doesn't help you at all.

[Asker]

Lord wym

[spartan55]

How does understanding him help your situation with him?

[Asker]

What does he want to. Me why can’t he just fuck off

[Asker]

From me

[spartan55]

Is there a reason you can't just ignore him and stay away?

[Asker]

No bc when I do days later he finds a way to speak again

[spartan55]

What do you mean? You can't ignore him?

[Asker]

The most days I went ignoring him was like 4 days and than he somehow ended up saying good morning and small talks

[spartan55]

So you really have no desire to ignore him. Are you under some sort of obligation to talk to the guy? You need to stop bitching about him until you truly want him out of your life.

[Asker]

Why does he keep coming back if he supposedly wants me out of his life

[spartan55]

Because you let him.

[Asker]

Nooooo

[spartan55]

No what?

[Asker]

I don’t go back to him he the one who does

[spartan55]

You really don't listen for shit, you realize that?

[Asker]

What’s that

[Asker]

I ignore him than he comes and says good morning so what should I do just ignore him completely

[spartan55]

YES, that's what I've been saying for four days...
It's like talking to a wall.

[spartan55]

Yeah, he came back to you AND YOU TALKED TO HIM, YOU LET HIM. Do you get it yet?