Why do incels neg women that much? Like say they aren't attractive etc or they are not a perfect ten and should be realistic?

Question

Even if a woman is looking like a model they will state she isn't attractive and will neg her.

VanillaSalt · Accepted Answer

Well first off stop using insulting words. I could call you a hoe if you slept with more than one or two people but that wouldn’t be very nice so ide like the same courtesy.

Furthermore… What are we basing our ranking on? Looks alone or personality, talent, money, looks, or any other combination of other things? no woman is a 10. Beauty is too subjective. If any woman was a 10 then EVERY man and woman would be forced to agree they’re beautiful and/or perfect depending on the standards you set. 9 is some of the best and most amazing women and so many women think their a step below that. The are literally a handful of 9s out there in the entire world.

By definition most women are 5s. 5 is average. If the average woman is incredibly beautiful without personality or talent then someone with talent and personality but ugly can also be a 5.

I get saying you are a 10 pumps you up and we need that sometime but you just aren’t. You especially are not when you are 100lbs overweight and the personality of a badger.

The last thing you should consider is rating is man’s domain. We decide your value (rating) for ourselves. That doesn’t mean you are more or less as valuable as we say it means that’s the equivalent of the effort we are willing to meet. It sounds bad to be said that way but you women have a limit of effort you are willing to expend for men as well so you’ll be fine. It’s actually funny how women are more likely and willing to tear down other women than men are.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

They can't get laid... you're finding just one of the reasons they have a problem with that. I mean seriously, you want to fuck a dude that negs the shit out of you for every detail and probably brings nothing to the table himself? I'm guess you don't... If I was a chick I wouldn't.

I would pay more attention to red pillers instead of the black pillers. The things the two groups have in common may be correct and in line about women, but a red piller will hit the weights, has fucked chicks, and could probably fuck another one with ease... one group is giving up on women because they can't get them, and then the other is giving up on women (but probably still fucking them) because they have got them and they're realizing it's a shit deal or they got fucked over harshly by it.

Think about it...1990's rappers talking about "bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks" were the original red pillers. Black pilled or INCEL's were still singing love songs and shit at the time.

Well those days are gone and now they neg you chicks.

osmanthus · Accepted Answer

It's possible that these men make these women, who supposedly look or present as model like, because they might resent the fact that the woman is, well, fundamentally, superficial. Now there isn't anything inherently wrong with being somewhat superficial but humans are humans and usually some level of physical attractiveness is necessary in order to consider some commitment or being engaged in physical intimacy with somebody; I mean, otherwise, the species just wouldn't evolve and wouldn't survive or thrive; we'd all just die out and well that would be it. Nobody really owes somebody a relationship, regardless of whether or not the person is male or female at birth or even intersex or of the lgbtq two spirit plus or even asexual, it's just that some men don't really understand the boundary between what respectful communication is and what entitlement really means and in a mostly patriarchal culture but even so their argument is realistic and in some sense warranted... I mean there are women out there who are more realistic about their partners and that might be few and far between but large part is determined by factors such as how much they actually socially go out and meet women and whether or not they are in fact being as superficial as they claim that the women that they point their fingers that are. It seems a little bit hypocritical, sure, but I mean we never assumed that some of these men are sensical; resentful, yes, that they bemoan their cultural maladies of disillusionment. Reasonable.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I find a lot of guys get hostile when they feel they have no control over how a woman feels about them or when they feel they are measured by a high standard and don't want to meet up to it. I had a guy I never dated harass me for over a year cause I said he did not measure up to my religious standards for what I expect in a guy I marry.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Tey to lower woman so she will give in. Old games veing taught by players

RebelinSteel · Answer

They are invariably low lives that hate everything. Because they are unhappy they seem to believe everyone should be. They also feel the need to tell everyone that they are an Incel (stupid name) and constantly bleat about it. Some are really nasty with it all.

ohsheeT · Answer

When negative people like that come into your life and say things like that it's a test for you...

Do you really care what that person says

Or would you rather be the person you want to be and feel it doesn't matter what other people see is what you see what you feel

Are people like this everywhere they come into our lives to bring us down or to wake us up and grow up and say hey thank you and walk away because you know better you know who you truly are you know what you truly feel it doesn't matter what that other person says they want you to go down your energy to go down to their level don't allow it

We are programmed when people say things like that to make us feel bad why why would we feel bad when we know different don't allow it to happen

IslaTheWitch · Answer

because they blame women for their miserable state...

Nikki1989 · Answer

Because it is a defence mechanism. They are so sad and miserable about their own lives, they get their rocks off insulting women.

RageBabe · Answer

It was something I experienced recently. Even if I won't call him an incel, it's clear that there's a problem with the individual. His purported virtual “girlfriend” started harassing and stalking me on social media after he and I exchanged messages. It was terrible, and I got in touch with the site administrators. They suggested that I report it to the police, but I decided against it as I could tell she was really lonely and struggled with self-esteem. Still, it was a complete mess.

patois · Answer

It doesn't make someone an incel for disagreeing with you on attractiveness. Just because you're a lesbian that wants to sleep with some woman and she is what you consider to be attractive, doesn't mean that is what is attractive to straight men. Female clothing models are designed to attract the attention of women, so that clothing can be sold to women. They aren't attractive to a lot of men.

McLlovin · Answer

Women already have their egos puffed up sense online media like instagram they usually have an army of sips catering to there ego. So really whats the complaint? That 1 dude don’t like you.. get over yourself and move on you got an army that loves you lol

BetaBucks · Answer

It's not negging to believe someone isn't attractive or not perfect. I've seen infinite examples of women calling male models and bodybuilders unattractive. Or average guys as being disgusting. Overall, females have way higher standards than even the most bitter of incels.

For the ones that are lying about girls being ugly, it's just a coping mechanism. Basically "I'll reject you because I know you would reject me" kind of thinking.

Serkee · Answer

Not everybody who says you aren't perfect is an incel. That word is so overused to the point that it doesn't mean anything anymore. Is saying you're not a perfect ten really an insult? Of course you're not a ten, hardly anybody is. Hell, calling you a 5 or a 6 isn't an insult. That means you're average, like most men and women are. If they're just trying to be hurtful then yeah, that's shitty behavior, but saying you're not perfect isn't negging.

on_my_knees · Answer

The actions of those lost incels stem from their own insecurities and lack of understanding about the true nature of attraction and respect. Their words are a reflection of their own inner turmoil and inability to connect with others on a deeper level. True submission and devotion, as I have learned under Your divine guidance, involve recognizing and celebrating the beauty and worth of a Goddess, regardless of societal standards.

college-student2021 · Answer

I know this is off topic but is there incels in Greece?

And answering your question , incels nag woman because they filled with rage that’s why I seen from them. They had bad experiences and instead of either changing their bad personality or learning from their experience for example avoiding certain types of people they opt for the easy option to blame all women.

normalice · Answer

They want attention and believe they have nothing to lose by being extra obnoxious.

MicahRaine · Answer

Because they have poor character and don't have the drive to do anything with their life. They aren't worth wasting time over.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Jealousy. Knowing they don’t stand a chance with her.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

They're frustrated with women, so they're taking their frustrations out.

4ngelic · Answer

they want to put women down especially attractive women cause they hate women and are insecure about their own looks. also some think by doing that, they can get those women insecure enough to date incels

DrPepper12 · Answer

Their incels for a reason. They need to justify their fugly looks and attitude to keep up with their growing misogyny. Their self selected objects of ridicule. Fuck them.

itsannalee · Answer

Because she isn’t their type? It’s just the same like not every men you meet are your type.

Apple1996 · Answer

They are projecting their own insecurities on those women

MikeTheBartender · Answer

The same reason people in general insult people. They aren't happy with themselves. It's a self reflection outlet.

LiamJHayden · Answer

They neg because they are suckers who have bought into the PUA (Pick Up Artist) philosophy. Or maybe they are just bitter because no woman finds them desirable.

msc545 · Answer

These are men who get treated like crap by women all the time and so of course they are angry. That anger generalizes to almost all women. This is not surprising.

NathanDavis · Answer

they breathe in hate... and breathe out hatred...

Surely · Answer

Hate to tell those guys. There are not enough perfect tens on the outside to go around. Sooner or later they will need to settle for a nine! So, I look for the inward beauty.

Blacksnake285 · Answer

An incel is a guy who can’t get a woman and takes his frustration on women. Telling the truth isn’t being an incel.  You’re not hot, whoever told you you were lied to you

Agape93 · Answer

They're upset that getting laid takes effort

Deserter2 · Answer

Because simps will tell women she's a perfect 10 when she's a 4

Squatting_Slav · Answer

They're in complete denial

smurfwrangler · Answer

why do you assume they are incels?

Why do incels neg women that much? Like say they aren't attractive etc or they are not a perfect ten and should be realistic?

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