How to stop feeling worthless when everyone leaves or mistreats me even if I didn’t do anything to them?

[Brunettexoxo]

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know you seem to be changing for the better. Those kind of people HATE that and are very jealous. I think they’re projecting who they are onto you especially when you start seeing these people for who they really are.

In past posts you have said things about these people. All the things they’re doing but yet they’re throwing things at you that aren’t even near as bad. Not good….. But at least you see the error of your way. You aren’t perfect but you said you’re going to church now. That’s Satan trying to drag you back down.

It doesn’t matter if you did anything to them or not. Evil people are out to hurt people. Why does a mass shooter shoot people that they don’t even know never did anything to them? Especially children. They’re evil.

[Summeroflove]

Honestly they’re doing you a favor. Do you really want to be transcending. And be stuck around the same old people. Doing the same old things.

They keep getting worse while you’re getting better. Pray for them. That’s all you can honestly do.

[LoveHotGrillz]

Narcissists believe everyone else is the problem, not them.

Maybe your Narcissist and are driving everyone away without realizing it?

Why is EVERYONE around you leaving you? Why can't you hang on to at least a few friends? why do they all run from you? Normal people don't have everyone around them leaving them for no reason. That just doesn't happen

[Brunettexoxo]

I have two friends, I ask them all the time they say it’s not me that I’ve just met the wrong people and they love me / don’t want me to go. I’m not sure I’ve asked the people that left why. But they never answered

[elizamichale1]

Well first only u can make urself better by believing in urself n by being confident in whatever u r... try making friends who encourage n appreciate u on ur positives n when someone points out some real thing about u try taking the advice n improve or change urself on tht particular bit if necessary... n just learn to ignore the rest... there will always be people who will be mean so just ignore them n be happy

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[DishLady]

As I told a friend just the other day, it's not ok to let others make you feel worthless. It's up to you to understand and appreciate your own value. You shouldn't allow others to mistreat you bc that shows them that YOU think of YOURSELF as worthless... and why is that? None of God's creatures is worthless.

[strateguy632]

By remembering your accomplishments and skills and you know how to do stuff from studying. If i learn network technician i have that value not worthless.

[OddBeMe]

1) what does “leaves and mistreats” mean?
2) why do you let them value you?
3) how do you didn’t “do” anything to them? It might be bullshit but they might think you were rude, etc.

[dazzafromoz]

Only you can decide your value. If you let other people do it they will always make you feel worthless.

[andy530]

Therapy could help. Also, affirmations, talking with a friend, remembering where you get your value and worth

[Luckycharms12]

Bad choice in guys or girls. Maybe take break and do you. In time think back signs or something they have in common

[jahaims]

You should gain your value from who you are as a person not from what others think

[DrPepper12]

Figure out who the toxic one is, you or them

[MasterKS]

Grow your confidence!