Is he going too fast?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy lately and he told me he wanted to go slow (because he was single for a while) and finally he wants to go fast in his actions…haha.

He proposed me to have a barbecue with his friends one day and the day after to eat at his little sister’s place.

I met him only 10 days ago.

what to think?

[bobalife]

Although it sounds hypocritical lol. But I think he sees potential in you the more he got know you lol. My ex boyfriend did the same after our first date, he quickly invited me to see his friends and family because we hit it off. Do what you’re comfortable with :)

[bobalife]

Oops to your question, I do think the family part is fast yes lol. But it just depends on your comfort and what you want to do.

[Asker]

Yes thats why Im cautious… Im hesitating about thiking he is a bit manipulative or just simply happy and rushing a bit things.

[bobalife]

You know if that’s how you feel, then be on your toes yet be open to where it goes :) normally I would feel that way too lol. But I guess with my ex, surprisedly, I actually was okay and met them! Haha.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, if all he's done is invite you to some things, I don't think that's really "moving fast"; it's not like he's suggesting you move in together.

[Asker]

Yeah but thats a lot in a single week no? Especially inviting me at family s place.

[NamerOfStars]

Two things? Maybe. But if they were both already happening, I wouldn't worry, and if the first doesn't go well, you can bail on the second.

[Asker]

Yes true :)