Hey there. I'm 31 I met a funny and nerdy guy who's 36 in a Facebook group back in June. We chatted everyday since then. He flirted with me only a couple days after chatting then admitted liking me after a month of chatting. I admitted I like him too. But he seems super serious about me. We live 8 hours apart but he says he will move to my town with me after we do a long distance relationship for a bit. He's already told me he's in love with me and that I'm perfect for him and all. The only thing is he isn't employed right now and still lives at home with his parents. But plans to get back to work soon. I don't know I'm just nervous about all of this and wanted to get some insight from others. I like him and want to try, but I'm also weary. Do you guys believe people can fall in love without ever having met? Does this seem like he's moving too fast?
Thanks in advance.
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He is love bombing you. You don't even know each other and won't until you spend time together in person.
I thought of this too. How can you tell if it's not love bombing?
You can't love someone without meeting them. Just start there.
I wouldn’t jump in and put all your eggs in the basket but I truly think it’s okay to keep your interest in him if there is a Genuine connection.
Thanks. Yes I feel a genuine connection. But I'll also just take more time. He says he will wait for me to be ready.
you're welcome, I wish you the best of luck
Let him find his footing first before moving in your place. He might just want to drag himself out to his parents house and moved somewhere else.
But I also believe in loving without seeing them such stories are real sometimes but rare too. Might as well set a safety net for yourself because moving in your place is serious thing.