He’s the savior?

[Anonymous]

He believes he did good thing and got me away from my abusive boyfriend who was locked up at the time. Trying to pursue me for over a year. Finally I let him in and exposed my trauma which he had asked. He’s not physical unless he wants me to swallow his man part. That’s what he wants. But when I ask him to leave me along because I’m not emotionally ready for this type of weird friendship. He doesn’t he comes over everyday. Says he loves me but no affection.
What is going on? Obviously theirs so much I can’t put it all it’s nothing to care about but
Why? He’s not saving me. He’s making me feel like I’m being dependent on someone who doesn’t even make me feel anything.
How do I fix this or open his closed eyes

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like he feels like you owe him and that he has a advantage over you because of this delusion he created that he saved you, cause he would respect how you feel if it was otherwise.

[Asker]

He believes that if he stops coming around and making sure I’m not using ( which I tell him all the time he talks to me like he’s my dad)
That I will get back with my ex. The abuser.
What does that matter tho?
He isn’t my boss
He’s either my partner or he’s a friend
But you don’t just stick around cause “you have to protect someone”

My trauma that I experienced he said just was to much for him he can’t handle it.
Me staying with my ex for the period of time I did.
Somehow makes me a horrible person and he can’t stand it

But he won’t go away.
Block him. Change the locks. Done it all. He still comes over everyday. Happy as can be talking about himself.

I stopped listening.
I don’t understand it
But boy ***when he wants his dick sucked…. Saying no doesn’t matter he will just jack off standing over me and try to cum on me.
Like it’s immature

He won’t compliment me I compliment him all the time
Despite my trauma I do my very best to not take it out on him.
He is nothing but good to me for the most part but emotionally and intimately their is none

[ChicoFromThe305]

Seems like he has a lot of issues to work on.

[Asker]

he's better than us. I just want to fix my own mental health and all this isn’t helping.
He doesn’t get it.
But it’s not my responsibility to get for him

[Asker]

I just don’t get why he even tried to save me in the first place.
If this was the result

[ChicoFromThe305]

I wouldn't know but I think you should try getting your personal space back

[Asker]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Let him have your dog then you can make the nice trade off

[Asker]

Never would that ever happen

[Opinion Owner]

Are you sure

[Asker]

He’s mine

[Opinion Owner]

Good Girl

[thearchjoker]

Sounds strange

[Asker]

It very much is

[Anonymous]

Sounds more like he is playing you.

[Asker]

That’s what I think also. But he doesn’t go away. He’s with me 24/7
He’s now in love with my dog. It’s starting to be super annoying

[Asker]

But he’s positive and healthy and clean and sober and I never had that in my life so it’s like good to be around but at the same time it’s way mixed feelings and stressful as fuck because he didn’t save me. I saved myself. He just had his hand on my back and allow me to grow.