Guys, if you were with your crush and passed a girl you thought was attractive, would you innocently share with your crush, "that girl is attractive"?

[Bethany22]

Because to you it's just an observation and has nothing to do with liking the other girl more?

I might have done that in the past, thinking I was just sharing a harmless observation, but I know better not to do that now.

I have never thought of doing that, as my crush is not my male friend, and I instinctively know that confiding in her could blow my chances with her.

A total of 23 votes were cast: 3 girls and 20 guys. See detailed results

[nawtee_me]

It appears that I am in the wrong boat here. See I believe that just because you are in a relationship everybody else does not automatically turn ugly. I would think that if either mentioned how pretty another person is that both people would be secure enough in the relationship and comfortable enough to be open and honest with the other. Insecurities in a relationship is what breaks them apart.

[hahahmm]

When I was young & dumb and didn't really understand anything about women I would have shared my thoughts.

But a guy is screwed no matter what. She can always find an excuse to be upset about something. It's really about her mood.

[HawkPerception]

I think when you have 2 grown and mature adults in a relationship, they realize that your attraction to the opposite sex doesn't stop just because you're in a relationship.

I'm not with a girl because she's the most attractive girl in the world. I'm with her because she's attractive to me and I love her personality and how compatible she is with me; how I feel with her. And I don't expect a girl to find me the most attractive guy in the world either, but I do expect my partner to find me at least attractive enough to be with and loves my personality and how I make her feel.

I should be able to say other girls are attractive and she should be able to say other guys are attractive without feeling insecure or jealous in the relationship. It's not like I'll ever try to get with that person if I'm in a happy and loving relationship. And I wouldn't expect her to hit on dudes just because she finds them physically attractive.

Like... I'm not Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth. I'm just an average dude.

My intention would never be to make my partner feel jealous or insecure and if I know it may make them feel that way, I won't say it, which is why if I ever DO say anything along those lines, I make sure that I say it in the right scenario and context to make prevent my partner from feeling that way.

For example, I'd never be at a beach saying a girl in a skimpy bikini looks sexy. But when watching a movie or walking by a girl somewhere, I might say "She's an attractive girl. I love the way she dresses. I'd love to see you in that dress."

[AviatorTom]

No, I wouldn't verbally say anything. But my crush would probably me notice I'm looking at this other woman, and reach her own conclusion that I think she's attractive.

As a girl I dated in college once told me, "There's nothing wrong with looking. It's doing that would be a problem."

[PeachyPie93]

If I was with my crush, no, I wouldn't mention other attractive guys because I wouldn't want him to get the wrong idea to make him think I am into others and don't like him. (I have talked about attractive people with online crushes tho because literally its never gonna happen between us, I don't mind us sharing about people then) Also even as a couple I find it rude to share that, like keep that bit of information to yourself, I don't wanna know, unless I ask lol.

[MicahRaine]

Nope, I wouldn't.

That said, I was in a situationship once (not my proudest moment, situationships are a bad idea) with an artist who made it her personal ambition to draw my perfect type because she knew I didn't have a a very specific type. So she would sometimes point girls out and ask me what I found most attractive about them.

[JSkye]

I think the answer to this question actually depends on the girl the guy is with, no?

Like, with me, there are no repercussions for that. With other girls I know, that's a guaranteed argument.

[Crimsyjo]

I think majority of guys will be smart enough not to say!

Buy then again... my crush just fucked me off big time this morning with similar thing *sigh*. He's such an idiot

[Kaneki05]

One of the things where girls say they want honesty but they don't actually.
Can't wait until I find a girl who does because yeah I am just honest and would.

[TallAnon]

Ah yes, telling the girl you like that a different girl is hot; The sure-fire way of ruining your chances

[HighlyQuestionable]

No, if I was with someone I was crazy about, I probably wouldn't even notice another girl.

[DrPepper12]

It's crude until your deeper in relationship and know boundaries, insecurities and reactions

[beefcakebradybatson]

Probably, and if she saw a handsome lad, I'd expect her to say,"What a great-looking chap!!!"

[shortster]

I only have eyes for my crush

[Crimsyjo]

🥰🥰🥰

[Nikki1989]

We both do it all the time.

[spartan55]

Why th would I say something so completely stupid?

[LaurenM1997]

No I wouldn’t

[LEGENDARY4200]

Of course. Maybe she would think so as well...