What makes a certain women so widely attractive so many men?

[Anonymous]

We’ve all seen it, the women that men just fawn over. It’s not just beautiful female celebrities it’s specific women men get together and seem to collectively agree is perfect or ideal. An examples being Sydney Sweeney, Natalie Portman, Sarah Cameron, Alexandra Daddario, Megan Fox in transformers. There are some women who just get insane amounts of attention almost solely from men.

The same thing happens in real life men collectively obsessing over one woman. I’ve known several girls in my life like that the girls who get all the attention, seen and adored by just about any man who saw them.

However those are often the same women other women don’t find all that special or impressive. In the case of hollywood of course they’re gorgeous but looking at real life they can often times be just slightly above average girls (at least to other women.) No doubt they’re pretty but I could look around and spot 3-4 technically prettier girls getting not even a fraction of the same attention. What makes a woman a mass obsession to men?

[Finchie40]

The way she presents herself , her beauty and personality combined , sometimes her personality is better than her looks ,? sometimes her looks are better than her personality or she can have both. So for. a bunch of guys’ to be very attracted to her , it can be a lot of reasons they find her absolutely gorgeous. Most of us men are very visual when we see a beautiful girl , We imagine her in our arms or by our side. But just because a girl looks great on the outside, it doesn’t mean she is great on the inside. Her heart is really what matters to us. I see beautiful girls’ all the time but it doesn’t mean I want to be with all of them , it takes more than just looks for me to even consider pursuing a girl. Most of us guys’ will fantasize about being with her but if we actually got to know her and we find out she is a bitch , we will no longer really be interested in her because she is a bitch. Example , I met Pamela Anderson back when she first starting making her premier and almost every guy wanted to be with her , she was beautiful to our eyes , when I met her? Her personality was even better making her even more attractive to me. She was sweet and down to earth to me when I met her. I felt like I was melting by how beautiful and sweet she was being towards me to the point i almost creamed my pants lol Her voice was soft spoken and sexy as hell , when I got a picture with her , feeling her in my arms I was so turned on , I told her she is absolutely beautiful and that I am so flattered I got to meet you , She looked me in the eyes and said Thank you Cutie. I melted lol

[SamIam96]

Your question makes me think of all the words we use to describe how people look. Beauty, pretty, cute, stunning and the word you chose, attractive. They all have subtly different meanings. Maybe these pics illustrate some of that.

cute

beautiful

pretty

Of course everyone has different tastes. Still, I think all of them are "attractive".

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Very interesting, I've been discussing this with friends, the level of subjective contained in these three words

[SamIam96]

@Maybe_Maybe_not There really is, but to me, they are all slightly different. I'm curious if your reaction to the 3 pics is similar to mine. (I admit, it isn't a perfect sample, but still...)

[jennifer_bloom]

I think guys obsess over me because I'm soft and gentle and non confrontational. I'm also child like and quirky, I sound serious on this site, but I can also be very playful and infantile in how I talk and think, not in an unabridged and offensive way, but in a colloquial, small scale panache or propositional way.

[Anonymous]

Her intent , nature , and general stature. She’s probably very femine yet strong. Some women have a beautiful aura

[Asker]

I’ve felt the women who only attract men and are disliked by women to the the weaker less interesting ones, the ones with less aura. I’ve noticed women who other women love tend to have beautiful strong auras that men can’t understand enough so they don’t flock to them as much. Maybe I’m wrong though

[Opinion Owner]

U are wrong. Men flock to girls who they don’t like. They are shy around girls they like. A girl who every guy wants mostly is hated by most guys and most girls , because the guys can’t get her , and women can’t replace her

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Fundamental issues with the word "Attractive":

Beauty is objective, see @DrPepper12
Personality impact, see @LiamJHayden
Beauty is subjective, see @SamIam96
Woman opinion is biased, see anon30-35
Man is biased because variance, see me

And I didn't even start to talk about trends, societies and cultures, memory and internal psychology... So. Well, how long are we going to talk about such an incomprehensible word that is Attraction?

Please, LOL

[DrPepper12]

The Golden Ratio. 1:1.618
it's impossible to deny it's power. We're hard wired for it!

The golden ratio, approximately 1:1.618, is a mathematical concept often linked to perceptions of beauty and harmony. It is used in various fields, including art, architecture, and cosmetic surgery, to achieve balanced proportions. In facial aesthetics, certain measurements, such as the length of the face compared to its width, are considered more attractive when they align with the golden ratio.

[Anonymous]

First of all, this is an example of how women think they know what is physically attractive to men, but they don't. Countless times I've seen women question why men find woman A more attractive than woman B when woman B is "obviously more attractive". Well, maybe to women, but not to us men. Despite what they think, women are not the authority on what men find attractive in women.

Having said that, the answer to your questions is femininity and feminine energy, something that comes naturally to women but they often suppress it these days. Femininity is expressed in how a woman looks, of course, but more importantly, in how she talks, what she believes, how she interacts with and views men.

[ProbablyClueless]

I think it's a flirty, happy, uplifting energy.

[LiamJHayden]

Many if not most women are attractive to a lot of men, but the ladies' demeanor does not draw those men past the initial attraction.

[Anonymous]

Handi-J's. All those women you listed learned to choke up on the bat. That's thier secret.

[jahaims]

Symmetry and a body that is healthy for birthing

[Sharkstealth]

Genetics, sluttyness, character and charm.

[Nahid1707]

Are you a fan of Sydney sweeney?