Guys should I send him the meme?

[arya0616]

I like this guy a lot but he doesn’t want a relationship with me. He still hung out with me hoping we’d hook up. (He did get what he wanted). He sends me memes on ig and I used to as well. Last week I decided I will no longer send him anything and cut him off. But like now I don’t wanna not send him stuff. I don’t like this feeling. Should I send him the meme even though that gives him the wrong idea? He doesn’t text me. He snaps me and we have a streak and I no longer snap him first, I only do it if he sends me and he has all week.
Idkkkk what do? Can I send him the meme without seeming like I want him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl I totally get the conflicted feelings, but I don't think sending that meme is a good idea if you're trying to get over him. Here's why:

- It will tell him you're still thinking about him and hoping for contact, which gives him power.

- Even if you play it off casual, he'll read into it that your guard is down again.

- You said you wanted to cut him off and not send anything anymore. Sending the meme goes against what your gut knows is best.

- He's shown he doesn't want a relationship by just hooking up. Don't keep giving him mixed signals in case he led you on.

I know it's hard, but sticking to your boundaries and pulling back fully is the quickest way to stop those feelings and move on. Block/mute him if you have to! In a few weeks when you're over it, send all the memes you want. But for now, don't give him the ego boost - you deserve so much better sis! Be proud you're choosing yourself here.

[33tango]

If you keep feeding strays they're going to keep hanging around. If you show him any interest he's going to interpret it as you wanting to be physical with him again. Stop wasting your time, someone else might get to your Mr. Right while you're playing games with Mr. No Commitment.

[bowenw]

It seems like you are wasting your time with him as he is not interested in a relationship. I suggest you stop communicating with him so you can start getting over him.