Why does this guy expect me to reply straight away?

[Anonymous]

So been messaging this guy. I respond in a Timely manner. He’s usually the one very busy. For example he messaged me saying he’s finished work and then asked if I’m free or working he messaged ‘?’ After that when he didn’t hear a response it had only been 20 mins.

on the other hand he sometimes is gone for hours. However he does always say why he’s been busy. I’m just confused why does he want me to respond right away?

Another example is he messaged me saying he missed me & then as I hadn’t recieved WhatsApp messages he text me saying you recieved my message not sure they gone through?

[Summeroflove]

People who do this are very frustrating especially if they’re texting at bad times and they know it. I understand if someone’s not responding for days forget them but 20 minutes isn’t that long.

It’s hypocritical if he’s gone for hours but wow if you have a life and cannot answer in five minutes it’s the end of the world.

Honestly he needs to be dropped like a bad habit. Just tell him how you feel and that things just aren’t working out. If you get into anything long term with him you can get your bottom dollar that it will be worse.

People who have double standards will always have rules for you to follow that they will never follow themselves. Like they’re allowed to have opposite sex friends, they’re allowed to be out late at night, if they cheat they have a excuse, but you can never be forgiven of it. Even if they cheat 20 times it’s okay when they do it.

I’m just saying, not saying it will go that far but you get my point. Someone who feels entitled to your time will never get better. Entitled people aren’t worth it.

[Taniisokay]

No one is so busy to send a damn message. Either he is seeing someone too or not interested into you that much. Either way, I wouldn't be here waiting for his message. World is full of people who would be all on your face. He isn't the one. Next one.

[Nikki1989]

If he or you were serious, you would be talking and not waiting on an emotionless text message.