Are most guys that are players confident?

[JanetMaree]

Is there a correlation between the two?

[razelove]

Yes and yes. You have to be if you're going to approach and control lots of women. There are men who tick off the boxes of being attractive, having their shit together, but are still simps because they aren't confident enough to control their woman.

A player does not let his bitches get out of line. I'm a family man now, so I don't call my wife my bitch, or tell her to step to my beat except in bed, or if she gets out of line. It is 100% acceptable to tell someone take or leave it, you were great, now if you want to stay until the morning this is what I expect.

Women do it all the time, and the first couple times are tough, but with practice being confident and not caring about that which does not deserve care becomes easier.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Yes, around women. There are tons of dudes that are pretty thin and frail that women seem to be attracted to, even with their outgoing personality they know when and who to shit up and listen to when they are around men. Maybe they’re on the talker side and have good hair and a good face, but whats up with your all’s choice in the weak pointy feminine chins these days?

At least Taylor Swift got a historically normal too looking guy, which is funny because she has frog but

[bluesparrow]

Simps buy strangers drinks at a bar.

Players do not. It's not all that hard when you figure it all out.

[msss98]

I think carisma and confidence are common traits yes

[Berethor]

How he going to be a player if he shy? also each girl they use gives them an ego boost.

[JanetMaree]

Right! Well I guess I wasn’t thinking shy I’m not talking about someone that’s scared to talk to a woman !

[ProbablyClueless]

I'd think you sort of have to be confident to be a player

[boggboss]

Its pretty much required

[LiamJHayden]

I would think so. Or just do not care.

[Intheclouds00]

It's required to be one.