Confused about the new guy?

[Anonymous]

Ok so their is this new guy in my gym slash work place he is cute tall totally my type but I felt kind of nothing after seeing him but we had great chemistry we joked a around and when I was about to leave he told me he likes me but we just met and we are coworkers he told on a pretty awkward time and I wasn’t able to respond we got interrupted the next day I didn’t bring it up he didn’t either we joked are played fight I can smell my self catching something for him but I’m not sure if I’m getting played around with cause this man is cute he could get whoever he want

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1 y

Yeah your right

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1 y

Nope we only work 2 days of the week together

[spartan55]

First of all, no guy can 'get whoever he wants'. Second, you don't really know him at all. Play fighting? Really?

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya that sounds confusing. Are you catching feelings?

[Asker]

It is and I’m not sure I don’t want to let my self be vulnerable and catch feelings just in case he out here playing around

[BarryLiverstone]

You said you just met him, so what are you planning to do?

[BarryLiverstone]

If you think he’s just messing around you learn that over time. A player will eventually show his true intentions

[Asker]

Yeah your right

[BarryLiverstone]

Have other guys said they liked you at work? Or you noticed this guy because he’s your type

[Asker]

Yes he is the only one who told me and we’re getting close fast and I don't know what to do are how to react

[BarryLiverstone]

You gotta try to relax and be yourself. he's working with you so there is no rush. You will see him often so you can slowly learn more about him. Have you asked to hang out with him not at the gym?

[Asker]

No we only worked together 2 time

[Asker]

And I see him tomorrow

[Asker]

Also I think he added me on one of my social I don't know I think it him

[BarryLiverstone]

Tbh just remember he’s nearly a stranger as you have only seen him at work. No need to think much about him as you know he’s spending time on other things

[Asker]

I needed to hear that

[BarryLiverstone]

Glad it helped. Just being honest