After sex, why would a guy stay?

[Justneedtokno]

This could be for a relationship. This can be for talking phase dating, especially if you don’t have children with that person. Why would he stay? What are some reasons for a man to actually stay with the woman do men lose interest after having sex with women isn’t that the thing so why wouldn’the just leave

[D_Bone_Steak]

I would say something cliché like cuddling or to talk... but you kind of got specific.

See some women have a trap already laid out and some of them lay it out not in front of having sex, but right after. It's sort of like "I did this for you and now you owe me this, this, and this. I want all of this shit too... agree with it or we're going to fight." It's sort of like an instant red flag to run and make your way out of that shit... and pray she doesn't make false allegations.

I've been hit with some of the most obnoxious bullshit you could even imagine right after sex. It's like they lured me in with all this wonderful shit and then once I've released, they want to talk about how their rent is due, have college debt, and need to make a car payment. ... yeah great woman, you just killed the attachment feelings that was going on with your bullshit.

Oh yeah, she likes my smile, my witty quips, and my muscles... but as soon as I nutt, I basically need to pay her to keep liking that stuff about me. Red flag... run.

I'm only gonna stay if she's the same person she was before sex. All that bullshit comes out right after sex is like "Awe fuck, I've stepped in meta shit again didn't I?"

There is no "good" reason I should stay after that. GTFO and hope I don't catch some false charges which isn't always in the legal system. It could just be her girlfriends calling me out on shit I didn't do.

[Finchie40]

Because he likes you and probably wants more than just sex with you , Not every guy just has sex with a girl and leaves and says that’s it , and yes there are guys’ that do that, and unfortunately , it sounds like you already experienced those kind of guys’ before , but not every guy is that way. Me personally isn’t that kind of guy , for me to even consider having sex with a girl , I have to feel chemistry and connection with her , I have to feel there’s’ a possibility she likes me back the same way and that she wants to see me more and more , other than just sex with me. I have slept with some girls’ that just assumed all I wanted was sex from her , and nothing more , that were surprised when I showed up the next day bringing her flowers and asking her on another date. So not all guys’ just think with their dicks. Unfortunately it’s the chance most of us take when we meet someone new , that we are attracted to and interested in , we aren’t mind readers and we don’t truly know what someone’s true intentions are. Guys’ and Girls’ go through the same thing when meeting someone new. I hooked up with girls’ that I thought wanted more with me , to find out all she wanted was sex. So again , we don’t know what someone’s true intentions are. We just assume we know. Sadly in todays world , a lot of people just assume it’s just sex and nothing more , we can thank Social media for that nonsense

[TheLovelyWoman]

In my experience, the guys usually leave after they get what they want.

[Irene97]

Maybe his into a person is there more than just coitus.

[integrale77]

Makes a change from the woman saying "I feel used he came over just for sex then left"

I would typically stay after for a number of reasons: -

I don't want to be a dick
I enjoyed her company
I'm hoping for things to go further
I'm hoping for a repeat performance maybe in the morning
Round one has tired us out
I have nothing planned for an onward journey and it's too late
And finally she came back to my place so I'm not leaving but willing to be hospitable

If your not wanting to accommodate then you need to make this clear to start with just remember the bedroom activities will make him tired so booting him out after sex in the evening could be a bit rude.

[NamerOfStars]

Um, practicality? I'm not the type to have sex with someone I'm not dating, so maybe that makes a difference, but from what I've gathered, finding people for casual sex is HARD; if you get along okay, and the sex at least has the potential to be good, why would they leave?

I mean, I understand that for some guys (and probably some, though fewer, women), the "conquest" aspect is part of the appeal, but beyond that...

[lucas262]

Some guys have no problem using women for sex. Most guys want more than sex, they want her to be a source of peace, she's so good to and for me, how tf could u ever give this up. You don't need a PhD or 100k job or the figure of a solid 10 to be that for a man.

[Fireguy17]

round 2 , or he likes to be with, or he doesn't want you to feel like he just used you.
Most of the time it is because he like being with you, so if you want him to leave when you are done with him, just let him know that it is time to go.

[Grond21]

If a man is seeking to use a woman then he will walk away when he is done. But in healthy relationships is not interested in just the sex, he's interested in her.

This is always best, the fullest, and the most complete in a marriage

[M-Trimble]

The soppy romantic in me would say, to fall sleep together, then cook and serve breakfast in bed the next morning.

[ProbablyClueless]

Men have lots of reasons to stick around. Many times we just genuinely like being around the woman.

[spartan55]

Your main assumption is incorrect so I really can't answer your question.

[MicahRaine]

I stay after sex because it is actually just about sex. ATM, I'm having sex with someone then it's about love. And love is a whole lot more than sex.

[legalboxers]

could be a try before you buy and if the sex is good the relationship has to be as well

[paledreams]

"there's no breakfast - Quagmire, Family Guy lol 🥞🍳

[LiamJHayden]

Men who only care about sex might lose interest afterwards. Men who want more will not lose interest.

[ABC1x1x]

He's too drunk to drive home, Uber doesn't exist where you are. He's an idiot. Those are the only reasons he would stay

[Nifrayu]

I don't think that's a thing. Why would a man lose interest after having sex?

[Dongie]

Maybe it's the relationship. Or she prefer he leave.
Work related.

[msc545]

We temporarily lose our lidido, for about 10 to 60 minutes. It comes right back.

[krin_m]

Many reasons, but mainly to spend time together.

[NathanDavis]

he's not a douchebag?

[ManInChains]

Wouldn't know. I'm celibate by choice.

[Anonymous]

She fell asleep on his arm.

[eagle1951]

guess he likes you