Girls why do you stay in a relationship with a man that you barely ever want to have sex with?

[Finchie40]

So many men our sexually frustrated in their relationships , yes girl’s can be as well if their men constantly deny them , My question is if you love someone like you say you do then why withhold intimacy from them? What is your real reason? Are they cheating on you? Are they interested in someone else? Most relationships end because of this and most affairs occur from this because they constantly make excuses that they aren’t in the mood , So what is the real reason behind this? Why be with someone you don’t really want to be intimate with?

[Anonymous]

I've never withholding sex, even when I wasn’t really in love but in a committed relationship. I don’t even like the term withholding that implies conscious manipulation so no I don’t think I could do that, ever. If I’d say no that would mean I really don’t want it… if the guy treat me like shit then it clearly puts me off cause I’m the end I offer myself I like/love him so if he shows he doesn’t it’s very painful and I don’t want the relationship to keep going, so I’d say love/care is the prerequisite.

[Finchie40]

Then you sound like a keeper , I know guys do this shit to girls as well , and even though I know cheating is wrong it’s also wrong to withhold sex from a partner constantly making lame ass excuses all the time to why they aren’t in the mood , , to me that is cheating in the relationship if their is really no valid excuse as to why they aren’t in the mood , when a girl does that to me I feel she is rather cheating on me or weighing her options to see if her next victim will take her and whether she is or not , I realize she isn’t the girl for me and start keeping my options open as well , I don’t run out and cheat on her but if another girl finds interest in me and makes moves on me I am more then likely going to jump on bed with her , I was a constant punching bag to my ex that did this shit to me , I held on to her thinking love will save the day to find out she was spreading her legs for a co worker , so I don’t tolerate shit like that anymore , to me it’s abusive if You constantly deny your partner sex without a valid reason , , to me it’s like they want
You to cheat on them so they can play a victim

[Anonymous]

Just so you know you're not going to get a com I lately honest answer from women on this.

Women do this for whatever emotionally charged thought pops into thier head. Generally women will say they've reached a point where sex becomes transactional. They know men want it, they (women) want all thier needs met. And unless they aren't (even if they actually are), then they will withhold sex even more. Which is destructive act because that just makes her act even more belligerent and ridiculous because she wants it to but she feels he's forced her to do this🤣🤣🤣. My advice to any guy is don't give into these emotional charged games. Always know what you're willing to accept from women and what you are not. And when she crosses that line (give her a warning if you want). Cut her loose. ALL WOMEN have a bit of crazy in them. But the good ones know it, do thier best to keep it in check and can be reasoned with most the time.

[Finchie40]

Yea I tolerated this shit with my ex to come to find out she was screwing a co worker so when a girl does this shit to me I am out , I don’t stick around unless she really has a valid excuse then I would stand by her but when I constantly hear I have a headache , or I am too tired , I am too stressed , constantly then I tell her straight out that you aren’t the girl for me , I want a girl that makes me feel wanted not used