What is a girl's job the beginning of the relationship?

[chris_987]

Because if put in all the work in the beginning to get the girl why do girls think he obliged to stay.

A good example is fishing, why would a fisherman who learned how to catch fish, just catch one and stop catching fish 🐠 that would be insane.

[Anonymous]

There is no job in a relationship, it’s not a relationship if you’re viewing it that way lmao

[Opinion Owner]

If you’re putting that much effort into getting a girl, have you ever considered that she’s just not interested? Guys call it ‘hard to get’. Girls call it ‘leave me the hell alone’ 😂

[chris_987]

That's not based on reality tho, a girl might get thousands of guy asking her out in one year, whereas a men will get zero. So it up to the guy if he wants to engage with women because there not going engage with him.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah engaging and chasing are two different things.

[Opinion Owner]

If a girl isn’t interested then she won’t make conversation it’s that simple.

[chris_987]

Both are necessary to get a girl. Do you think you would be talking to me if I never posted this question?
No, it the same way relationships work men talk to women first and the more you take to the better you get at making a woman feel like she can let her guard down with you.

[Opinion Owner]

Then why are you making it seem like there needs to be a job 😂 if you like someone go talk to them instead over complicating it 😂

[chris_987]

Lol you never understood a word I said, but it shows that women can't relate to men any capacity

I never said it was a job, I just said it the way things are. If a man is responsible for bringing out your desires sexually then why do you feel like he should be loyal to you.