Guys, If you say to a guy “I want you” over instagram and you know that he also wants you but you dissapear for 3 weeks dont open his message?

[Anonymous]

Would you consider a woman as a challenge

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What if you appologized and said you were busy because tou studying in other state

[ProbablyClueless]

Challenge? No. She just probably wouldn't be worth the effort.

That kind of behavior, unless there's a great explanation for it, is a strong indication that she's going to cause me lots of headaches. I don't like headaches, and most women create more headaches than they soothe.

[Asker]

Why isn't somethig thats not easily reachable more interesting

[ProbablyClueless]

Nah... that's conflating two different ideas. You want the quality of your interaction to be so high that he has to work to keep up, you don't want to make it hard to have a normal interaction with you. What you're talking about is having a normal quality of interaction, but making it harder to have that normal interaction. Do you understand what I'm saying?

One is energizing, the other drains you because you aren't getting more reward for more effort.

[ProbablyClueless]

RE your update: The apology would make things better, but I would still have doubts about talking with a woman who I now know might just randomly disappear. It would make her unreliable in my eyes.

[Danny_dan92]

I’d lose interest