Why would a guy send you a DM and then when you respond never read the message?

[Anonymous]

And yes, this guy has been online and been posting but has not read my response days later. What gives?

[ohsheeT]

I kind of have gone through the same thing.

And what shuts me down really quick is when they want to go to another app to talk

So they ask you for your email

Or did they say call me and they give you their phone number so they can get your phone number and for me those are just red flags big time.

[scott04sa22]

Welcome to the dating world of hell

[jazzy34]

Who is the guy to you?

[Asker]

A guy i met on an app. We followed each other on Ig and then he messaged me there.

[jazzy34]

Oh. Well, he’s probably busy or is losing interest.