Are guys that don't let their girlfriend have male friends just insecure?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

Lady look... If you took a poll of guys that got cheated on after being told (gaslighted) that they're just jealous, paranoid, possessive, he's just a good friend, just a nice guy, and a personal one that was used on me "He's a fag" and then she goes and fucks the dude. Fag my ass.

If the guy is "just" anything I almost guarantee there is a reason he's like that and that he's probably right and getting gaslit.

I've seen it too many times, lived it, and then seen it some more. We've all seen what girl's night out is really about.

I think guys that won't let them are probably like me or just know better like I do. If I don't need boys night out then why are you trying to do it?

Before I sign off, I'd like to let you know my opinion was once different. Women proved me wrong... they just want to get dicks. I once trusted and paid that price. Older me now already knows they're full of shit. This goes for you too ladies, if you have a gut feeling he's up to some bullshit... he probably is. Don't let guys gaslight the ever living shit out of you too. It's not really a gender thing when you boil it down.

[Asker]

Sounds like you chose the wrong women.

[D_Bone_Steak]

You got that fucking right. But to push my point... a good woman wouldn't put a man in that situation. I wouldn't put a woman through that and I think that makes me better than any woman that would put someone through that. It's just unwarranted. I have techno music to dance to now... I thank you in advance for the MHO. xxoo

[D_Bone_Steak]

https://youtu.be/ujhj7mfvIQk?si=tZDLoCdDqhsYN5AJ

[Asker]

I didn't give you MHO. I was letting you know that it's your fault for choosing those women. Why would you chose women that are slutty?

[D_Bone_Steak]

You assumed I had a choice? Even dudes like me that can pretty much pull any pussy they want don't really have choices in this sexual market place. I got ripped from Japan where I did have good things going on and now I'm surrounded by sluts in America. It's either go without pussy or deal with the sluts.

So let me ask you a question... should I have just gone INCEL... get called a loser and all that jazz... or fucked tons of pussy? That's the landscape of us dudes here... I'm not in Japan or somewhere else right now where your argument would make sense. Does that make sense?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Look... these women are straight up hoes and when they're not... they're fat. They're still hoes at heart though because the only reason they gave up being complete sluts is because they got fat.

You understand what I'm trying to communicate here right?

[Abu_Kaboom]

Did you know that techno viking was a drugged lumberjack in 2000, then became a homosexual botanist who sued the man who made him famous into bankruptcy and married the guy whom he confronted during the video?

[Abu_Kaboom]

Also zombie nation takes credit for being in sports arenas.. so they brag on YouTube. When kernkraft400 is only nearly unedited remix of "lazy jones, stardust".

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Abu_Kaboom Damn... Techno Viking went gay?

[Abu_Kaboom]

I'm just learning this myself, not that i know anything of what the hell I type at times due to some christian fundie who you know for a fact is lying. about something... allahu akbar.

Search "electric ensembles, it happened then", that is 1980's version of "kernkraft400" even older than "stardust" version from 1990s.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Abu_Kaboom Techno Viking went gay tho...

Everything in the world no longer makes sense to me. I think I need religion. Allahu Akbar!!

[Abu_Kaboom]

@d_bone_steak I have more of a problem with the lack of hijabs and niqabs on Cindy and Mindy, and the dildos at the end. All they did was copy with added bass, not even remix, the "star dust lazy jones" onto such ungodly video. Then paid 9 thousand to the source they copied from, probably earning more than 9 million themselves.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Abu_Kaboom Did you use AI to find out all this information or you just knew this stuff off the top of your head?

You never cease to amaze me.

[Abu_Kaboom]

It's like the very first sentence of wikipedia page about kernkraft, which is about the only sentence I read. Plus the very top comments on these music videos.

But, that indian racist, she deleted my comment about her fapping to pics of young Henry Cavill. Remember I said I knew who she was? She's literally the only person on this site doing this weird shit and then gets shocked when we point her out in anon.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Abu_Kaboom Ah shit... she's the one that just blocked me after calling me a black man isn't she?

Her rebuttal made me crack up harder than I have in weeks. I almost shitted out what she likes to have with rice.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Abu_Kaboom You gotta read this one... https://www. girlsaskguys. com/fashion-style/q5297541-do-you-like-women-who-like-to-dress-up-every-day-or-do-you-prefer-a

[blueonblack22]

QA I get real fed up with hearing “oh you choose the wrong women”.

a lot of “modern” women are the “wrong women”. They are being are constantly being told that “their feelings are their truth” and to indulge it. They are being held accountable.

Can @d_bone_steak and myself had better judgment? Sure. But hindsight is always 20/20. But there is a legitimate reason why we are so cynical.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@blueonblack22 You're going to choose the wrong women when there is nothing but wrong women to choose from.

They simply want you to stick to choosing from them... the wrong women.

[blueonblack22]

And thing both of us understand that we can’t control a woman’s evolutionary nature. They think and rationalize things differently then we do.

But that IDEOLOGY that has negatively influenced and encourage them to do this bullsh*t needs to be exposed and acknowledged.

And this is not just for the man’s sake but the woman’s as well. If she hangs out with her “guy friends” and decided to hop on a dick when she’s upset (vs crying on a shoulder of a female friend) with her boyfriend/husband she is ultimately destroying HERSELF. She’s also destroying her bfs/husbands self esteem by “testing” him by hanging out with a group of guys. Cresting unnecessary drama. She’s disrespecting him.

And you can’t expect men to react view women positively when they feel disrespected.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@blueonblack22 Fucking A... you get it. Sunlight... exposure to it... disinfectant.

[blueonblack22]

Check this one out. Look at how this guy was brainwashed into second guessing himself. He manned up and drew the line in the end (proud of him). But look at what he went through and how she felt self-justified and THOUGHT SHE COULD GET AWAY WITH IT

Am I wrong for telling my girlfriend that it's both wrong and inappropriate for her to be spending the night with her male friends? ↗

[D_Bone_Steak]

@blueonblack22 This is pure gold and good reading material. It makes me hate myself for reading up on all the latest carnobacterium research as a possible probiotic that could enable us to eat rotten meat and bones like Hyenas. Why? Because I could've read this instead.

[KingslayerC]

@blueonblack22 dude that post is so fucked up. I really wonder what "ms cado" said now. Probably calling OP insecure and abusive lol

[Gym_Bro]

@blueonblack22 this is not expected to come from a disney "gym bro" but feelings can be the truth. What do you think feelings are? Often they are the only door humans keep open to communicate with fucking spirits. Yes, the astral world and all that shit, you could read up CIA data on "remote viewing" aka clairvoyance, it's primarily done through feelings.

One GaG member on this site, she was here for a few years but 5 months ago I scared her off permanently, she deleted her account in 1 day as opposed to the normally required 14 day waiting period (probably used some sort of privacy agency to help clean it all up), hasn't showed up since.

Ater a small argument about the existence of clairvoyance and such (despite her asking me a couple years ago if I think her logic is good about the existence of God... I thought she's not that much of a sceptic). To prove it I simply told her what she's wearing, drew a picture of her room and labeled it. I also drew a picture with captions of a future image that she will take using her phone, I uploaded it and gave her the link but kept the image private, so that it cannot be edited but is also invisible until she experiences it in real life, and only then I made the picture access public... it was perfectly accurate.

On GaG she was the only willing participant because most on here are unable to even comprehend what I write, they're like too fucking lazy to read anything that they know won't be aligning with their political view and shit.

So I had to say that "feelings" can also be the language of spirits that want to harm you. Or even inanimate ideas, or "thoughtforms", just about every human is "possessed" by thought forms, I. e. their feelings have agendas, so to say.

If someone is brainwashed with feminism, their feelings will be reflecting it. I guess.. it can be explained away by psychological terms like "subconscious mind" but eventually this terminology will stop working when you dissect it.

[Gym_Bro]

I probably sound like another one of those fucktards... I think I'm more coherent though than most of these college aged cheap bitches. Like @Rosexoxo, remember, @d_bone_steak?

So my point was that feelings or "intuition" sometimes is the truth, but with how fucktarded and most of all immoral, like most of these bitches proclaim to have 0 moral values, with that their feelings and intuitions are more likely to be "deliberately" showing bad guidance..

Fuck, I'm choosing stupid words today. My excuse is that I'm not native English speaker anyway so fuck it. I just hope I don't sound gay due to a similar word choice as these woke fucks.

[Gym_Bro]

@blueonblack22 you shouldn't try to stop the “oh you choose the wrong women” campaign.

When they say that, it proves that women are capable of making mistakes and aren't all angels. And it makes it impossible for you to be a "misogynist" since you do not hate women as a hole, rather just those wrong ones.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Gym_Bro The fact that they are controlled by 'feelings' is why they're wrong more times than right. And the woman that blows me off saying "Oh you just choose the wrong women" has probably gone through a much longer line of the wrong men.

That's another thing about their feels over reals, is they simply don't like accountability of any sort and will always snub their nose at the blame and where it should be. They don't like the feeling is why.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Gym_Bro Another factor that makes it very difficult to reason with women is that they are highly aware that the court of public opinion wants to side with them. Other women and simps, will always back them up even when they're all fucked up and completely wrong.

Like when Rosexoxo was trying to go after me. She wasn't even saying anything really outside of trying to bash on my manhood like I give a fuck what she thinks. What she was doing was waiting for others to white knight for her. She simply couldn't shut up though which was funny as all fuck. She was all triggered and couldn't even logically figure out her own feelings at that point.

[Gym_Bro]

@d_bone_steak at least they debunk the misogynistic crisis we are supposed to be in by admitting that there is such a thing as "wrong women."

Maybe there's something more important you're saying that I don't get. I don't know, I'm a wannabe steroid pumped basement-dweller trying to use the placebo effect for superpowers except I don't have a basement to hide in. What can I know about the liberal bitches i try so hard to avoid, while living in one of the top 5 most religious regions in Canada?

Most people including myself often struggle discerning feelings from intuition, so you're absolutely correct that logic should be above feelings, but I am sharing some experiences of "clairvoyance" to say that intuition should in some cases be prioritized over logic.

Actually wait. What I noticed is, often thinking and intuition are combined in me, and my feelings are paired with "comfort zone". The "feelings" often come from comfort zone that detracts from the real intuitive clairvoyance. Very important not to confuse these two. I may think "do it now or it will be late", but my feelings tell me to stay still because it's more comfortable, this comfort I confuse for a hunch from the spiritual. And then it turns out too late.

You may assume that this is just plain regular "thinking" as if the brain is just a calculator, but if it was this way then I wouldn't know what that chick was wearing across the earth, and what her room looked like. But to me it feels almost the same as regular thinking.

Usually bitches get their "feelings" from their selfish pussies, not from spiritual sources at all. Makes me wonder - do shattered masochists make better psychics because they don't care about comfort zone.. I. e. is their ego smaller and not in the way of spirit so to say?

From what I remember, more males have been those shamans and medicine-men and all that, females were often their assistants only. So fuck the "women are more in tune with intuition.." anti-male sexism.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Gym_Bro Mistaking our feelings as something magical is common. Intuitive thought is just instinct telling you about something your prefrontal cortex hasn't fully engaged in yet... like when 3 dudes approach you for no reason. A quick look at their garb and demeanor can tell you if they want to mug you or try and sell you something... and it all happens without calculated thought and can be mistaken as a feeling because we don't remember doing any calculations in that moment.

Or a less dramatic example would be how I just knew fashion trends or social trends were going to go this way or that as a teenager. I cared enough to notice the shifts as a child and knew which way things were going to go down. My friends used to joke that I'm psychic or some kind of time traveling freak... no... I just observed and it's basically natural calculated guesses. I would just call it for how I saw it outload and everyone would be like "you're full of shit Kujo" and then 3 months later those same people would feel mystified as if I had some sort of ability. I don't though. I'm just observing the people around me and watching what they do. If anything it's just some sort of prison mentality I developed thanks to being a slave as a child and wanting to know when my next beating was about to happen.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Gym_Bro All in all though this subject matter is considered very esoteric to the average meat sack walking around where their only worry is tasks given to them and something like a Netflix show or a football game that entertains them when they do have downtime. I would argue the average meat bag doesn't have time to think about their own feelings or their own thoughts. But it's real... like in cognitive psychology the formula is "feeling + thought = Their conclusion" If I were to give a psychologist break down I'd first hear their conclusion and then have to figure out the other two variables by asking questions and digging a little to really figure them out. That's why I consider logic or human thought in general to basically be "human algebra."

I mean for the Romans, logic and math was the same subject... and Alexander the Great was tutored by Aristotle long before the Jesus phenomenon took hold. I guess it's sort of a hobby to figure out where these people's id's, ego's, and their super egos lay and go from there sometimes. It's not emotional though because I'd probably rage quit and throw a hissy fit like a girl if I did that.

[Gym_Bro]

No matter how braindead someone is, I expect them to be able to look at the ultra simplified declassified CIA statistics that very clearly conclude that "remote viewing" is real.

And it took me less than 5 minutes to learn how and try clairvoyance exercises based on these CIA methods with results that 100.0% prove that we have the ability to access these so called "akashic records", in other words we all have psychic access to any information in the world.

I do not have all the biologic details of how it works, or any fucking quantum fucking suborgasmic wavicles physics.

But I do use it with success. This chick I mentioned before, a couple times I reposted the screenshots of what happened my posts got removed, I suspect she secretly watched my accounts for a long time afterward to ensure that I'm not leaking anything sensitive of her.

That time 6 months ago she literally stayed up it was 4 am in her country still texting me that she's scared and feels like she's being watched and all that. Asked me questions like at what age she will die. And we ruled out hacking because she beforehand agreed not to use any camera devices connected to the internet so she knew that i knew it psychically only. I repeated successfully "remote viewing" multiple times with other people but most people aren't even willing to try.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Gym_Bro I believe you. I had a friend that could come into my dreams and make shit happen that was wild. The next day at school, without saying a word... he tells me all about it and even pokes fun at the crazy shit I did... in a dream. Some short red headed dude, and I didn't even know where he lived and never hung out with him besides mornings at school. He just has an ability that even to this day I can't explain away.

He sort of taught me, but I can lucid dream and fuck with people at best.

So the chick was Phillipina?

[Gym_Bro]

No the chick was in russia.

But there is a term for this dude, "dream walking" if I'm not mistaken.

Recently found a really rare explanation of spirits/souls of humans by a really unique writer and practitioner who was not a member of any occult order but his parents and their ancestors visited all the different cave fuckers to learn their secrets. At least he wasn't gay or autistic so I give him additional credibility for that.

I think I only heard of something similar once before from a totally different source and thought it's just strange. Now, I see how it alllws all phenomena we know to coexist. He says there is no such reincarnation, as in your spirit once you die later becoming the astral body of a newly born person. Also karma is a totally different thing and something similar instead acts as a mechanism of "opposites attract" (and that's not a new concept).

Instead, a new astral body is formed with every new person born, and spirits who lived the opposite experiences of yours in the past enter your body throughout different times of your life without you even needing tl invite them. This accounts for the past life memories some people have verified to be historically accurate. This also allows multiple people to have past life memories of one same historic figure.

Now the asker is probably wondering what the fuck we are talking about.

[Anonymous]

Don't conflate not "letting" with not wanting. A guy who literally physically stops his girl from having guy friends is an insecure psychopath that should be imprisoned. A guy that doesn't want her to have guy friends is just a normal guy that knows how often girls cuck their bfs with "friends." I've been the "friend" a couple dozen times now, so I don't blame guys for not wanting me hanging out with their girlfriend.

A guy has the right to withdraw consent from the relationship and end it at any time if he doesn't like the girlfriend's behavior. Calling these guys "insecure" is just a manipulation technique. Plenty of guys fall for it though.

[Asker]

You're insecure

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no, the manipulation tactic is working... I don't know what to do... You got me. I submit... 😂

[blueonblack22]

This is 💯 spot on.

[SnowyOwl]

Mr anonymous, I'm curious though, how would you communicate to your partner that you don't want them having too many friends of the other gender? I mean I know this goes both ways, so how do you avoid being called insecure?

[blueonblack22]

@SnowyOwl if the roles were reversed no guy would get away with calling his girlfriend “insecure” if she didn’t like him being around lots of “woman friends”.

No way he would get away with gaslighting her. And don’t give us the “oh that’s different” on that double standard bs.

You just want your cake and to be able to eat it too @SnowyOwl

[Opinion Owner]

Ms. owl, I wouldn't say a word. When I was with girls that wanted to be close friends with guys or exes, I just ended the relationship. I didn't give reasons. If their behavior didn't match my desires, I moved on. I had a lot of options. And when I met my wife, he behavior matched my expectations so I married her. I didn't want those other girls to be forced to change for me and I didn't want to marry someone with that type of behavior. It worked out perfectly for me. Those exes are all still single though, so maybe I should have mentioned it to them when it ended. I just didn't feel like it was my responsibility, ya know?

[Opinion Owner]

@blueonblack22 exactly, blue. I've been through that double standard before and it's pretty funny.

[SnowyOwl]

Anonymous, I see. Well I'm glad it worked out. Seems you were determined about your expectations.. that takes strength. I hope to be more like that. Tho I agree, I would usually tell a person why I'm breaking up because I care about them not feeling so lost.. thanks for sharing!

[Opinion Owner]

@SnowyOwl no problem! Thanks for chatting.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

They are absolutely insecure and controlling. They will claim it's because her friends want to sleep with her and if that's the reason then it would make me suspicious of him and what he is wanting to do with other women. Normal friends don't see each other that way and even if they did, it shows a complete lack of trust in her that she would do something with her friend if given the chance.

Complete insecurity all around there.

[Reqwio]

@Ez-Bri-Z_v2 women have no accountability for their actions. They never stop to think they need to earn the man’s trust and respect.
Let me ask you this, how can us men trust you? Look at how women behave and dress for attention. Trust is earned by not hanging around with the opposite gender, one day you idiots will get it

[Reqwio]

You gonna be happy if your man chills around female friends that are hot?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Sure, it won't bother me because I'm not an insecure baby. I know he's going to be loyal to me. If I was worried about it, then what's the point of being with him?

[Anonymous]

Yep. The excuse is always "they want to fuck you". So? That doesn't mean they get to. It's insecure, immature, paranoid, controlling. I've got male friends. My husband has female friends. It'd be ridiculous if neither of us were allowed to. Thank goodness I married a mature grownup.

[michalpl00]

If you know someone else likes you. I think the girl should say, sorry I have a boy friend and then block. Friend ships should be platonic.

[Opinion Owner]

Friendships are platonic. None of my guy friends have feelings for me and they all know I have a boyfriend and are friends with him too.

[michalpl00]

Okay that’s good. My girlfriend is snapchatting guys friends and it’s making me uncomfortable. Do you think it’s okay to do in a relationship? And what things are not acceptable to do?

[Zack-Bann]

Guys are better at spotting the snakes in the grass and there are a LOT of them


My ex for instance, she had one guy friend who I knew with certainty was only ever going to be a friend.
I knew the guy and he had integrity and knew how to say what he means. But also was in love with a different woman


But she had another guy friend who was 100% trying to sleep with her and she let him get close later asking me to trust that she wouldn’t cheat


I had to explain to her that im not worried she would cheat and get with him. But the attention she’s taking away from us and giving to him is more than he deserves because he’s an asshole who thinks he can get her


And him thinking that while knowing she’s dating me is also disrespectful to me


That girl has been my ex for a long time and she’s now with someone completely different but if I run into this guy even know I will knock his teeth out on principle alone

[UnusualWeirdo]

If you're a female and think oh he's my friend he would never, you're an idiot, he will given the chance even if you're in a relationship, guys are pigs and will shit where they eat, they will fuck everything up for sex and it won't faze them. You would have to be a guy to truly know this, they say one thing to females but another to their guy friends. There might be a select few good guys you could be friends with, most want something more.

[Asker]

It sounds like you live in the internet

[UnusualWeirdo]

No I live in the real world, you as a female will never know how guys really talk, you can tell yourself whatever you like, unless you are a man in a mans conversation then the moment you come into the conversation it changes. When guys are alone together they speak carefree about women, things get said that most women would get mad at. If it were the other way around I don't men would get mad listening to women talk about men in a conversation that they think we will never hear.

[Asker]

I only like cute guys.

[UnusualWeirdo]

He doesn't care if you give him a chance he'll take it

[Asker]

I wouldn't give an ugly guy a chance wtf

[UnusualWeirdo]

I never said you would and you don't understand what I'm saying

[DannyWang]

Not at all.

It's because they have been a guy their whole life and they know very well how the mind of a guy works.

Guys have dirty mind. And any guy who is your friend one way or another wants you as his girl.

Regardless of what he says or does.

No actual man will have a woman as their friend. Because they already have a woman in their life. Any man that has a woman in their life and call them friends or besties are basically his potential side hoes... Either now or in the future.

So listen to your man when he says anything regarding a man. Is not insecurity.

He speaks reality.

That guy friend is just looking for a gap to come in between you and your man.

Any ACTUAL MAN would agree in this. Trust me I'm that.

[Asker]

I'm single. I think guys that don't let their gfs have make friends, are insecure. You sound insecure. You treat women like objects. So a guy can't have female friends or they're his "potential hoes" wtf you sound insane. I bet no girl wants you.

[Cj_Shway]

Most of the time, they aren't friends. they're just playin the long game.
Now I've only been on the flip-side of this; women I've dated saying they don't like me having other girls in my life. Does that make them insecure? Personally I never felt speculating was conducive to healthy mindset.

[Gwendoline]

No. I have male friends but they aren't friends friends. A lot of guy friends are friends in the past because they are sniffing around me despite knowing I have a partner. I won't disrespect my husband that way by even giving guys the impression that I might be disloyal

[SolitarySolace]

No, guys who don’t like it when his girlfriend has male friends knows that those male friends won’t remain male friends. She’ll cheat on her boyfriend with one if not all of them without knowing she is doing It. I speak from experience. All of my exes cheated on me with their male friends. Guys know how other guys are. Guys know what other guy’s intentions are. Women will never understand this.

[Asker]

Or you dates cheating whores? That's a you problem for not knowing how to choose them.

[SolitarySolace]

I haven’t dated in 10 years. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Rejected every woman who has been interested. Even the attractive ones.

[Asker]

Sure keep telling yourself that

[SolitarySolace]

Don’t have to believe me but that is the truth 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Miristheiss]

No, not at all. Are women ever going to come up with anything other than calling every man controlling and insecure if they dare have any boundaries and not put up with their girl pulling stupid shit?

They are wise and women are the skuzzy ones expecting to keep other men close in her life and for her man to be a weak simp.

NO MAN should commit to or be serious about any girl who expects to keep other men close.

[Finchie40]

It’s not insecure , it’s called being disrespectful, basically what you don’t want Your partner doing to you? Needs to be the same boundaries for you as well , if you want your relationship to survive and last the long haul , If not , it will probably last the short haul if you can’t respect your partner the same way you want them respecting you.

[MikeTheBartender]

My philosophy has always been if they were already friends it is none of my business, it's when you get in a new relationship and she starts having new male friends that some investigating needs to be done, I would never say she is not allowed to, but if all the sudden she wants to hang out with her hot personal trainer on Friday night while I am at home watching Netflix that's not going to fly.

[Asker]

Do you think she can't cheat on you with an average/ugly man?

[MikeTheBartender]

Cheating has absolutely nothing to do with attraction, look at hollywood, there are male celebrities out there that could sleep with any woman, but they end up cheating on their beautiful wives with ugly housemaids or whatever. So yeah she could cheat on you with an ugly man.

[DrPepper12]

I wouldn't say "just insecure" I would say head spinningly juvenile and controlling insecure. WTF is up with these guys? To me it seems so disrespectful to her that you would have the gall to presume that you call shots as far as who her friends are going to be!! Fuck that noise. Her friends were there before I showed up and will be there after I'm gone. Its insanity. Pure lunacy!!

[Anonymous]

No. You more than likely want your man to protect you. So that means protecting you from all possible dangers, even other men. If a girl is cute chances are her male “friends” want to nail her. So we eliminate such things to protect her from them because most women are so naive about rings like this when it comes to male “friends.” I would think if he didn’t set boundaries it meant that he didn’t really care about you.

[EmmaMary]

What a complete and utter load of fucking Bollox... I trust this applies to you Not having any female friends.

[Opinion Owner]

@EmmaMary lol another girl who doesn’t get the response she’s looking for that she thinks is the right answer so she tells a man he’s wrong. This is why men don’t talk. Please tell me what the answer is than since I’m wrong. Apparently as a male I don’t know the real reason. Correct me like all women do based on what they think is the right answer. This is why men don’t even want to be w or marry women these days.

[EmmaMary]

So correct me if I'm wrong, for you're applying the impression that you feel obligated (because of your masculinity) in being a pathetic controlling asshole in "ALL" women's lives.

I for one, certainly don't need a fucking lowlife to control my life, in such a way as to who I can or cannot associate with... Thank you.

On that note I'm not prepared to waste my time in fuelling your pathetic fire any more.

Goodbye.

[Opinion Owner]

@EmmaMary that’s not controlling. You think it is. But no point in explaining you sound like a feminist who’s probably extreme, probably don’t even have a man. If you do he’s probably a weak one at that

[Nikki1989]

@EmmaMary

This anon proved my point once again. Utter bollocks indeed!

[paledreams]

They totally 😆😋 then again - 🤔 why would a woman have male friends ; I can think of plenty women I've known who, it seemed it seemed - like they only had female friends.

And remember, that's not for cultural reasons or religious reasons, they just, shrug, had zero male friends.
Likewise I have 0 female friends, coincidence 😜

[Ariesman81]

I just asked a Brazilian woman this question.

Her response was NO. Colleagues out of necessity. But why would I need male friends? It would be disrespectful to my boyfriend. And I should trust my boyfriends opinion.

Leave these feminists alone!

[Asker]

She's a feminist? I don't care what feminists think.

[Apple1996]

Yes very insecure! They assume that everyone is out to fuck their girlfriend when that just isn't the case. It's very possible for the opposite genders to be friends with no romantic or sexual feelings between the two of them

[Apple1996]

It also seems like some form of a abuse as well to be keeping your partner from other people. It's just overall odd like if your girlfriend is gonna fuck another man it's gonna happened regardless if that's her friend or a random man she meets. The man has to put enough trust his girlfriend not to cheat

[Reqwio]

@Apple1996 women have no accountability for their actions. They never stop to think they need to earn the man’s trust and respect.
Let me ask you this, how can us men trust you? Look at how women behave and dress for attention. Trust is earned by not hanging around with the opposite gender, one day you idiots will get it.

If he had a super hot female friend like you’re gonna be happy with him chilling with her

[Apple1996]

@Reqwio I don't think women behave or dress badly lol
And my husband is allowed to have female friend. I ain't stopping him

[lorenzomichael]

I don’t think that way. In fact she could have as many guy friends that she likes. Seriously. she can’t go to the movies with them go help them watch their cars go have dinner with them.
I wouldn’t mind just as long as they’re fucking gay and I mean Liberace gay.

[keegen]

I've told my girlfriend that i don't like all of her male friends that she has on the internet but I've also told her that if she believes that they are good people i won't interfere in that aspect.

I'm not going to make her end some friendships all because i feel insecure about it, I'm going to tell her how i feel and from then on she knows how i feel about it. she can deicide what she wants to do with that information.

[JesseP1nk]

We know what your "friend" tries to do. Because we have done the same shit!

" He is so insecure... " 🤣🤣🤣 Let my boy Matt Rife explain to you

https://www.youtube.com/embed/IVyFZK-pqeQ

[spartan55]

I've never heard of this guy, epic take.

[SlightlyMental]

Yes, but also some people are just not compatible, some people ave a better social connection to others and strive to help and some people can see this as disloyalty which means they are not trusting you.

If there is no other reason to be worried, it is insecurity.

[justabuddy]

Here is the thing. Instead of blaming the boyfriend all the time, why don't you work on being more trustworthy as a girlfriend. Or better said, proving you are more trustworthy. Which ever one applies.

Then you will know if it's an honest insecurity or not.

[Asker]

This is general question

[Nikki1989]

Very much so. They will, of course, try to sugarcoat it with every lame excuse possible.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

100% yes, and it’s to a very toxic degree that can easily snowball into abusive levels of control over their partner

[StickyFloorRicky]

No.

Do you let every woman you have a meal with drink from your glass?

Would you set down your cold drink in a room full of thirsty women?

If you will not, then maybe you are being insecure? Don't you trust those thirsty women to leave your drink be? During the meal, why not offer them your drink?

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Easy enough to research. Go search forums for the sheer amount of cheating stories that start " he is just a friend, no one you need to worry about"

That's basically why.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Could be, but necessarily.

Once you're in a serious relationship or marriage having friends from the opposite sex unless both spouses share the same group of friends looks and feels inappropriate.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

* not

[paledreams]

Or it's just odd - like "what is there, to talk, about" Austin Powers hands 😲 ✋🏻✋🏻

[paledreams]

Complete with mid sentences pauses and expressions 👀👀

[Anonymous]

nope. it's disrespectful especially when male friends are actively trying to sabotage the relationship. refusing to tolerate disrespect is not insecure

[SlightlyMental]

So you assume he woman is braindead?

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyMental pretending to be braindead by playing dumb. they'll use code phrases like "he's just a friend" while leaving out important details

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyMental nope. there's nothing paranoid about refusing to tolerate disrespect. friends by association is fine and must get along and respect the relationship. outsiders are not obliged to do so.

[SlightlyMental]

The question.

Are guys that don't let their girlfriend have male friends just insecure?

Your answer does not fit.

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyMental her male friends by association would just be my friends. her male friends would be those with no association to me

[SlightlyMental]

They don't need to be associated to you do they?

And if they do, you would say hi and welcome them right?

Having friends is not cheating.

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyMental actually they do. my male circle consists of no snakes

would you want your circle consisting of snakes?

[SlightlyMental]

So to you women are snakes?

Over 8 billion eople on Earth, and of all the women in that number, all snakes?

Strange person.

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyMental where did I say women are snakes? I don't need snakes in my circle regardless of gender

[SlightlyMental]

You have given no other balanced side in all of your posts just that you must be respected.

The real mind inside of your head is easy to read.

[Opinion Owner]

@SlightlyMental what's wrong with being respected?

[exitseven]

No, if they still friends with guys that they had dated or had sex with I would be suspicious too.

[Dongie]

No. Sometimes the girlfriend is a cheating whore and has to have an eye and a hand kept on her.

[Asker]

If she's a cheating whore then why do you stay with her?

[Dongie]

I don't. I'm not every man. Are you every woman?

[Asker]

I'm every woman 🎵🎶

[Straight2thepoint]

Men no men. Surprisingly boys know boys. It's trust that you're ignoring. Choosing to be ignorant is the part men and boys are aweqr of.

[LiamJHayden]

Can be. But if the guy is always flirting with her, I can understand his not wanting that specific one around.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Probably, though the boy will have to monitor his girl's male friend's intentions towards her.

[Anonymous]

No, they just know what other men think and that other men usually want to fuck their female friend.

[SlightlyMental]

So you assume the woman is braindead?

[Intheclouds00]

Yes, but that doesn't mean it isn't without good reason.

[lickmyfrosty]

that's fine as long as she doesn't mind me having girlfriends

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Insecure? Yes. Just insecure? No.

[RageBabe]

Yes, and vice versa.

[noohair]

Let me know how, "Don't let" works for you.

[Squatting_Slav]

Very insecure and weak

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, that’s pretty typical actually

[kaucky1]

Yep unsure of themselves

[nawtee_me]

Absolutely and have trust issues too.

[In_Trance]

No that's not the case at all

[Jmmmfi4]

GUYS & GIRLS can't BE FRIENDS

[Anonymous]

Only sluts say yes.

[Fireguy17]

Yeppers.

[FunkyMonkee]

I would think so!

[OddBeMe]

Yes.