So I’ve been seeing this guy for a month. He’s older than me like 10 years. And well we’ve sort of formed a situationship that’s exclusive or at least we promised to tell each other if we hooked up with or wanted to see someone else. We spend a lot of time with each other, we’ve gone on trips together, he’s made dinner for me. But for whatever reason I can’t get it out of my mind that he’s still fucking around with someone on the side bc I’m more of a sweet girl and not a femme fatale. Anyways is it possible for someone to be so sweet and still be dicking around on the side? how can I get over this feeling? And yes we’ve talked about this persistent feeling. bc suddenly he says he deletes all his messages from his phone and emails. He’s always slightly turning it away from me and I’ve noticed that a mutual friend every time I leave his place coincidentally is messaging me. I don't know I like this guy but I don’t like these things that keep coming up. TLDR; in an exclusive situationship with an older guy bc I’m moving. He’s sweet but some things are just off that lead me to believe (even though we agreed) he’s talking to other people. Could this be going on?
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There is no such thing as an 'exclusive situationship' that's contradictory, and stupid. Do you really think he will run it by you if he wants to bang some chick? If you do, I've got a bridge I'll sell you. You can dress it up and call it whatever you want but you are not his girlfriend, you are someone he fucks when he feels like it. You are acting all insecure based on nothing but your feelings. He won't put up with that long. So, why are you in an arrangement with no commitment when you want something else? Smh...
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