Which is true confidence?

[Anonymous]

Which man do you consider more confident

The man that lights up a room, and is very outspoken

The man that walks in doesn’t utter a word and doesn’t need or want to prove im himself

Outspoken guy

Quiet guy

[_Maya_]

This has nothing to do with the topic that you placed it in and more with behavior and the reason I moved it. Look, we both know who you are because of your thousands of accounts and the penchant for anon and putting them in the dating topic. That said I'll answer the question. The man that is outgoing is going to exude more confidence to me and to most girls. He's going to also likely be more approachable and inviting. A guy that is shy is more off putting to me. He is going to seem awkward and NOT approachable. In the end it doesn't much matter because either way if a girl doesn't want to be approached or uninterested, it won't matter what the guy is like. In your case, you need to find a new hobby other than making new email accounts and the same for here.

[SueShe]

I am not in favor of any of those examples.

A man that seems confident (not IS confident) is perceived as a person that may full of himself and that wants to make others believe that he is confident whereas he is not.

A man is only as confident as how others perceive him. I am personally not in favor of a confident man simply because those tend to want to be dominant and arrogant. This is the kind of personality I totally abhor. I will take my distance from someone like that.

On the other hand, a shy person that does not want or need to prove himself is equally uninteresting in terms of having a conversation as he is more likely to be the type of man that is a people pleaser with no opinions of his own. He will follow the majority and not take any initiatives by fear of rejection.

[molonski2]

In honest reality its the quiet dude , the loud dickhead has some serious problems he is not addressing..

Just like the stand up comic , virtually always has serious phycological issues.

[mandyfire98]

The guy who is more social will always get noticed and accepted more. Any person who is shy and standoffish and non social is always more likely to not get noticed or other people will take it as that person wants to be left alone. It's human nature and the way society works.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Both can be massively confident or incredibly insecure.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning yet another Troll of the day award.

[In_Trance]

Whatever