What even is confidence, what are people confident about?

[Anonymous]

Im only confident playing video games and doing my job as I know im good at it. But in general as a person in life I have nothing to be confident about. I know people dont like me or want me around I can't make friends or attract and flirt. I get bullied and laughed at even several times was recorded by strangers while they were laughing at me. So when it comes to important things in life Im bottom of the barrel filth of the earth but things that mean nothing like being good at videos Im capable

[midnightmoon05]

There are some who are born with the skills/talent…most of us have to learn to become better at certain things… that helps us.
for example…I have to drive … I got really good at it and I love it so it makes me feel proud and confident.
mad a teen, I was shy and hide away…in my 20s I had to get myself out to meet people… I am not a drinker…they made fun of me…still I went out and my bubbly personality brighten up the room so to speak.
I was not good with money… guess what… I have to lose some before I gain some.
so get out and do something to make the changes.
oh…my second hubby I met here on gag…he was living in the same house for 30 years!!! We fought like crazy… he finally moved out of that same old town/house…and we are so much better now… living a good happy life.

[Asker]

Is it wrong to hate women they are always laughing at me and judging honest to God Almighty I want to kill women so fed up with their shit and treatment of me as if they think their the greatest thing to walk this earth

[midnightmoon05]

Who to judge what’s right and wrong… we are the only one who can control us… life is not fair in case no one told you!! I can hate on so many things… I chose not to!
I chose to make changes to be a happy person.
Guess what!! I can hate my first hubby like all those vicious single mothers… I chose NOT to for the love of our kids…
I can hate the court system!! I chose to not fight beciase that’s how this society wants us to do… fight!!! So that we can all be sheeps and become a nothing!! I chose not to… don’t get me wrong I was angry before… but I learn to change those hurt feelings…
Now we have gone above the system!! Gone beyond proverty! Gone beyond the control of the govt… so to speak!! so it’s your life… hide and be a coward and be angry towards others or take control and change your destiny!!
Who the fuck care what others do!! Did they tie you up and humiliate you in public?
I didn’t even care what the court wanted to do!! I didn’t even fucking show up!! When I did!! I told the judge that the court system is not set up for the love of the children… but divorces… only hurt kids… her face turned red and eyes turned watery!! So there you go…
Give up and be a man and take control of your life!!! When you let others run your life you are living in their “jail” get it?

[strateguy632]

confident that when i ask a girl she will think i am worth it. then she senses you're confident and when you ask she will say let's go.

[Asker]

Girls look at me or hear me speak and determine i am beneath consideration and respect

[midnightmoon05]

You said you work so you have money. You can get a professional trainer or watch YouTube coach to fix that.
Or continue to live the way you do…since you are asking… sounds like you want to make changes.

[Chayce]

Confident playing video games? Dude, unplug your systems for the next year & actually do things that have worth to them, like reading or training.

[Asker]

Yeah im good at them, nothing else in life for me im ugly and possibly gay so you can imagine how lonely and rejected by society i am

[midnightmoon05]

What do you mean possibly gay?

One day, my 14 yr old daughter came home…”mom, I’m confused…no you are not… you have been telling me how not crazy you are for the last 2 years.!! You are not confused… I got her straighten up. She is 16 now and hasn’t been confused since we had that talk… she likes boys!!
Our society is raising weak weak weak people… confused people… why? No parents parent their kids anymore!
Like I said… family court system is to distory the family unity. That’s why you are weak and confused.

[Asker]

@midnightmoon05 What are you talking about? Im confused because i think im hetero yet women always tell me im gay. Being weak well i suppose thats just who i am or molded into from bullying since childhood

[midnightmoon05]

Yes I understand why they call you gay.

The question for you is? Is this how you want to live th rest of your life or do you agree or think you can make the changes?

[midnightmoon05]

Did you read what I wrote? Do you understand my point?

[Asker]

@midnightmoon05 well i dont so maybe you can enlighten me

[Asker]

yes probably lived 29yrs of it, agree to what, and no there's nothing to change

[midnightmoon05]

“There is nothing to change”

Wish you the best of luck…one must walk their own journey.

[Asker]

@midnightmoon05 way to clarify why women see me as gay

[midnightmoon05]

Not really. It doesn’t matter what we say or do, you will continue to be thus way…till you tell us/yourself you want changes.

[Asker]

@midnightmoon05 you're no help

[midnightmoon05]

agree... i don't those who doens't want help.

if you are a coward online hiding as anon... asking why someone call you gay and can't tell them you are not gay... you are at a lost.

when you reveal yourself.. i can get to know you and even give you personal calls to help you and talk to you.
I have a few gag friends who I help/talk to over the phone through out the years since I have been here on gag.

[Asker]

@midnightmoon05 Nobody has ever said it to my face women only say it as im leaving walking past them or at a drive through after they shove my order into my hands and say faggot as they close the window.

[Asker]

i asked as anon otherwise my post wouldn't get replies since everyone thinks im fabricating or have auditory hallucinations

[midnightmoon05]

You worry too much about what others think. You are allowing yourself to be put in their “jail”
There are many unhappy people… enrolling shitty jobs… what are you doing to make yourself not be them?
As of the way you shared… I am an outsider I see that you are allowing others to put you down.

Some of these come from childhood upbringing… that’s another story to dig into.. what were you treated by your parents?

Your self esteem is very low.

[Asker]

@midnightmoon05 Im ugly and funny looking of course its low it would be out of balance with the universe if it werent

[midnightmoon05]

I am going end this…your negativity attitude is the issue…not your look.

I had to train my daughter over 5 yrs…to be a positive thinker…you can too…but you have already given up on yourself.
I wish you the best. Changes are in your hands…you decide.
Bye.

[Asker]

@midnightmoon05 Cya still never said if im actually gay

[Chayce]

Asker, you need help. Start training & raise your testosterone if women think you’re gay.

[Asker]

dont women think im gay because i am?

[Chayce]

Well then you’re gay! Do you think you are? If you have to question it you probably are🤷🏿‍♂️

[midnightmoon05]

@Irtbgbfb wow you read all that? I appreciate your kind words.