Why do men seem to want sex from me and not a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Despite being a modest and reserved person, a lot of men seem to approach me in a very sexual way. They often make it clear either directly or through their actions that they only want sex from me. They are quite disrespectful and have no interest in getting to know me as a person.

It not like they are fuckboys because eventually they end up in relationships and seem to treat these women well.

It’s to the point to where if all I have to offer is my looks and body.

[ThebestIndian]

Beauty lies in beholder's eyes.

1) Being honest, the reason I bought this up is if there are multiple people who are just expecting sex from you is maybe, you have not given them enough reasons to be with you apart from sex.

2) If I wrong with the first part, I wanna say Men mostly take what they always want.

Either way, I am complimenting your beauty and interested to know you better. Looking forward.

[Asker]

Okay. What exactly am I suppose to give them?

[ThebestIndian]

Men are really sensitive than you think. They seek caring woman over anything

[Asker]

I am caring. When I’ve swallowed my pride and asked these guys why they didn’t want a relationship with me, they didn’t really have an answer. One guy told me that we were incompatible because I wasn’t confident enough (but I later found out that he had a girlfriend the entire time and to this day, he won’t leave me the hell alone despite blocking him on everything and avoiding him).

[ThebestIndian]

I might require to know you more to answer this perfectly.

[Asker]

What information do you need to know?

[ThebestIndian]

Like how did they approach you or how long have you known each other and stuff like this.
How are you with people? Cause, Swallowing pride and letting you out does nothing apart from showing that you are weak.

[Asker]

They had know me for months when they approached me in a salacious manner. So, I don’t understand that last part. By swallowing my pride, I meant I humbled myself enough to ask why the didn’t want a relationship (most people don’t ask for the sake of their ego).

[ThebestIndian]

There are multiple other factors, honey. I do not wanna come to a conclusion just by few texts or comments we exchanged. only a true person who knows you can tell you the answer.

[Asker]

Am I too boring. I am reserved and introverted and it may come cross as boring to some people.

[ThebestIndian]

Again, I cannot actually come to a conclusion with this. I want you to consult someone who knows you better.

[Asker]

None of them seem to know why. The closest that I’ve gotten is that the guys I’m choosing just don’t want a relationship.

[ThebestIndian]

I wanna know more about you to answer that, honey. I just do not want to conclude this by saying you are a bitch or things like that.

[Billlewis]

Probably because, based on your personality, they think you'll be easy.

[Asker]

What about my personality gives “easy”?

[Anonymous]

Just because they’re in relationships does not mean they aren’t fuckboys. Men cheat or pursue women every single day, they could even have a whole wife and family at home.

[Abbycado]

Sounds like you are not meeting the right type of guys. The problem could be where you're meeting them and the vibe you are giving off.

[Asker]

What type of vibe could I be giving off?

[Abbycado]

Hard to say not really knowing you. I go to my fair share of parties at school and some girls even to me just have this vibe. Could be what they are wearing or how they act flirty with everyone.

Maybe talk to one of your friends and ask them if they notice anything. Hard to see ourselves like that.

[Asker]

I’m not flirty at all. I’m very reserved and modest. I’ve asked my friends and they are stumped as well.

[Abbycado]

Where do you meet these guys?

[Asker]

Meetup groups, work, friend groups…

[Abbycado]

Yeah, so that checks out as normal.

[kaucky1]

,, x🕳️💢🫧💫🌀They just get you wasted used you imposed do whatever they want being untruthful

[Nikki1989]

They are not men, they are boys.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Maybe there’s a common factor here.

[BarryLiverstone]

Testosterone.