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I wish I never knew him. I wish I never met him.. sometimes I wish he didn’t exist.. because I feel like I’ll never be able to let him go or be genuinely happy in my life.
We briefly talked but I caught heavy feelings for him through how he made me feel and how masculine I thought he was and level headed.
He did want to have sex and sleep with me and he rejected me because I wasn’t trying to have sex in which I told him in the beginning
I hate that he would even try talking to me knowing he’s attracted to trans or not at least telling me… it makes sense why he’s still 37 no kids or married
He’s so selfish and had the nerve to play me and slvt shame me for posting half naked pics.. he hurt my feelings and I’ve done everything to try and hurt his back just to be ignored and blocked.. I tried exposing him.. I’m to the point where I don’t care what happens legally. I hate him that much
I have no empathy for him. He’s bold enough to do that be bold enough to say what you really like
We briefly talked but I caught heavy feelings for him through how he made me feel and how masculine I thought he was and level headed.
He did want to have sex and sleep with me and he rejected me because I wasn’t trying to have sex in which I told him in the beginning
I hate that he would even try talking to me knowing he’s attracted to trans or not at least telling me… it makes sense why he’s still 37 no kids or married
He’s so selfish and had the nerve to play me and slvt shame me for posting half naked pics.. he hurt my feelings and I’ve done everything to try and hurt his back just to be ignored and blocked.. I tried exposing him.. I’m to the point where I don’t care what happens legally. I hate him that much
I have no empathy for him. He’s bold enough to do that be bold enough to say what you really like
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And you’re probably the reason he acts the way he does. By you ditching him when a new guy comes along which was very quickly.. and getting beaten then coming back to me. then another new guy is here.. so what did you expect? Whats a guy to do when given no chance? Put the blame on him and go on acting like youve done nothing wrong.. and the whole sex issue os like when everyone else is getting a piece of the pie and you just get the crust if that at most
Good lord... nothing like leaving out the parts that make you look crazy.
Parts LIKE WHAT? You NEVER MENTION IT!
You beat me to it💀
I’m not getting into it with you guys. I was rejected because we weren’t compatible and a lot of it was influenced by his sexuality
@HollyK21 I’m not getting into it with you guys. I was rejected because we weren’t compatible and a lot of it was influenced by his sexuality
Riiiiiight
Exactly, you were rejected because you weren’t compatible it had nothing to do with sex so stop making it sound like something else. He didn’t even want sex he told you that.
Because he’s not genuinely attracted to women.. not on a relationship level and he did want sex. In his closure he stated that he didn’t want to invest his time if we weren’t going to eventually have sex. So sex was a big reason.. which I’ve told you numerous times
He’s gay
You tell yourself whatever you need to Chels lol good grief.
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Holly why would I WANT him to be gay? Why would I even want to tel myself something that isn’t true? Make it make sense! He never intended on being with a woman romantically because he doesn’t have the capacity!
You want him to be gay so you have another storyline to harp on. Without adding sexuality into the mix you have nothing left to talk about when it comes to him, and we both know you aren’t ready to be doing that so… breathe life into the narrative I guess.
And you can ignore that information per usual
You really have no idea… so many signs I missed… it truly does make the situation more complex and my feelings …
There isn’t a drop of complexity in that situation other than what you’ve created.
So anyway.. LIKE I SAID! If he were closeted he should have left me the fuck alone. That’s the end
But he’s not closeted, that’s the thing about it….
How do YOU KNOW? I see more clues than you! Do not start thinking that you know more than me because you don’t! He is not a straight man and there’s nothing wrong with that but don’t act like you’re better or that you don’t have issues either!
I know enough.
How do YOU know that he’s not closeted? So we aren’t following the don’t guess his sexuality thing anymore? Because unlike you I can reflect and see certain signs that I missed. YOU don’t know.
I’m not assuming his sexuality at all, I said I know enough about the situation and definitely take his input into consideration despite you suggesting otherwise. You’re saying he’s lying about what he said without any proof other than your own feelings anyway.
I’m just being fair Chels, and I saw what he said in those texts which totally contradicts your whole narrative about him just wanting sex.
I’m way past that Holly. I don’t know why you keep bringing that up when SO MUCH MORE happened after that! Okay he cleared some things up! Whoopty doo 🎉🥳 as he should!
But that doesn’t take away from the fact that his true intentions were not genuine and that he is not a genuinely good man. It doesn’t take away from the fact that I felt insulted and disrespected.
It also doesn’t take away from the fact that he prefers to possibly be with trans women and I was disrespected on his identity journey.
Stop bringing up the same narrative to every conversation! Thats why it’s a continuous loop!
Why don’t you look at his pattern
You’re not being fair at all! And it has become invalidating and extremely triggering talking to you
No more
Let me remind everyone that the entire catalog of 'evidence' that he is closeted is her assumptions drawn from social media...🙄
You don’t want me to bring up the parts of this situation that you conveniently leave out whenever you post about this. You never ever post what happened from start to finish just what warrants the most empathetic responses. I don’t know why you do this every week.
Okay yes I made a mess after but is having my guard up really bad?
Nothing that you’ve done since having that last conversation with him has been for the sake of keeping your guard up Chels. Like there’s no part of that situation that should be relevant enough for you to still be here, acting as hurt as you were on day one.
I’m not going back and forth with you
I only responded to your questions🤷♀️
There’s no point. You’ve become my enemy. Defending his behavior and blaming me on how I reacted? Yeah noo
Go to hell
Yeah yeah yeah, Holly the mean one, Holly the villain🙄
Or Holly the needs to be right.
But I’m taking my power back after he ruined me for a year bc he’s selfish.
So is Spartan and everyone else who disagrees with you trying to be right as well? Because you act like this towards everyone who has anything to say that you don’t wanna hear. It’s ridiculous because you aren’t here for help just validation.
Well like I said.. he wants to romantically be with trans women. I wish I knew that and if he’s bold enough to insult me I can do the same back
Tell yourself whatever you need to.
You can tell me that you don’t believe that 100 percent? You 100 percent don’t believe he actually wants to be with them?
Nope, because if he wanted a trans woman then he wouldn’t have wanted you. You had no mention of being trans in your bio or a penis print in your picture to entice him, he knew you were a full blown woman. So why did he match you? Why did he give you the time of day if you weren’t trans? As I said before, unless you have some manly features that you’re in denial about, or unaware of, then your logic makes no sense.
You don’t think he would want both?
Are you dense? You don’t think he’s thinking about it and trying to come out about it? He’s following more? Why would a man want trans?
Nope, I think that if you’re going to claim he wants trans women then you need to accept that you have some sort of manly feature on your body and in denial about it. Could explain why or how you’ve been single your whole life. And I will not entertain some bs about waiting because you seek male validation far too much to put them on the back burner.
You don’t think men can’t hide true attractions? And he was attracted to masculine looking women celebrities … but you truly don’t believe a man can hide that aspect of himself
I’ll give it to him tho… he didn’t think I was pretty enough that’s why I’m being ignored
We’re not talking about every man under the Sun, we’re talking about this one and this situation. In this situation I believe that you may be in denial or oblivious about how you look because you have attracted a man who you claim wants trans men. Could be something about your face, shoulders, arms, who knows.
No I don’t look masculine at all but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t like men and women.. so I don’t understand your point..
There could be something on you that’s masculine and you don’t realize it. Otherwise if you were so flowery and feminine wouldn’t you have many more options rn?
I certainly wouldn’t imagine a woman who’s has options would be on here obsessing over one date a year ago. You’d have moved on.
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Okay, in my opinion you look feminine, there’s no mistaking that so again, why would he match with you if you do not resemble what he likes? I’ve said this a trillion times. You either have features on you that remind him of a man, or you look like what he’s trying to match with on that dating app — women!
If he likes trans women then maybe I am just being too generous and missing some something but again, I do not think he swings that way.
You’re not getting my point at all! He can like feminine women and men at the same time! Because he’s BISEXUAL
BUT he may not want a full blown man so he looks for femme men (trans) he likes dick! He’s attracted to penis!
I’m telling you there is something not straight about him… he follows anal sex page, male male female content and trans… all revolves around penis!
You’re being way too generous… no straight men attracted to women with a penis..
Like I said Chels you can tell yourself whatever you want. I disagree and since he’s not here to discuss or defend his sexuality then I’m not getting into it. Bisexual, pfft, you’re so disrespectful.
How am I disrespectful? If I’m going by what HE LIKES and LOOKS AT!
I can guarantee you that your 6’6 black boyfriend who plays basketball is a cheater if you keep up with this dumb blonde and naive behavior! STOP
you already admitted to me way earlier that you wouldn’t be okay with your fiance following that so why should I?
My fiancé vs a guy you knew a handful of days with one date under your belt are two entirely different cases. I wouldn’t care what some dude I met a year ago does, but the man I plan to marry matters a bit more don’t you think? Besides he has no interest in social media.
It’s disrespectful to paint narratives about people’s sexualities and label them when they aren’t around to defend a single thing. As of now it’s slander but I guess the legal aspects of this have gone out the window.
But I don’t want kids and he made me consider it… I genuinely thought he was genuine… I don't know I feel like he wasn’t attracted to me, felt he could do better and may be trying to figure out his sexuality..
But it hurt.. and I do have an appointment with a psychiatrist… having to pay $300 dollars hope it’s worth it
I may have to put in my resignation… I wonder what’s taking him so long to sue me…
I did something bad again.. I accept I’ll never get a reaction out of him…but I wrote under a old comment on twitter that his friend tagged him in saying this:
I thought he was gay? Mr. Downlow is definitely not straight which explains it… encourage your friend to be open to coming out the closet so that he doesn’t have to hurt women. Peace and love.
You’re bold enough to disrespect and ignore me be bold enough to be who you truly are.
Stick to your chicks with sticks. @xxxx take more accountability.
I’m not a bad person.. despite of everything.. I’m just tired of holding the sadness. Same sadness and feeling from a young age
You’re not a bad person, you’re just making decisions right now that don’t work in your favor at all. Like I wish you hadn’t gone under that tweet and said what you said but I’m just hoping that’s the last time you try contact him Chels. I’m not sure why he hasn’t taken legal action, he either hasn’t seen this stuff or doesn’t care, but in any case why keep pushing the limits?
Maybe seeing a psychiatrist cost a lot but hopefully they can help you get to the bottom of this. You’ve said already that this whole thing is deeper than him and now you have a chance to dig into that.
Maybe he cares and doesn’t want me to get in trouble
Sure, but in any case, what’s it matter? You aren’t in trouble yet moral of the story, so maybe you should stop trying to change that.
You think he cares? 🥺
Stop that🤦♀️
It's like talking to a wall.
Stop what?
Stop what Holly?
Like Spartan said, it’s like talking to a wall.
I really don’t think he didn’t like me because of how I acted… it’s part of it only because he knew it would be hard to get rid of me after sex because he never wanted a relationship
I genuinely do not understand why you insist on a narrative other than what he’s already told you. If you’re that determined to hang on then do your thing but this is just ridiculous Chels. If how you acted had nothing to do with it then he would’ve never called you unstable or said sex would make you crazier. Even that he only said during a conversation you were already having about the topic. This just goes in circles you don’t listen to anything I’m saying ever.
The part I don’t understand is why keep talking to me? Why be rude knowing I have “issues “… and tbh I’ve done nothing crazy before he even called me unstable…
Just because he didn’t end it right that second doesn’t mean he didn’t stop talking to you, because he indeed did only a few days later. Then you could’ve stopped talking to him as well when you felt like he was crossing your boundaries or whatever, and stop making excuses for “why” you didn’t. Doesn’t matter if you thought this or that, you still went against your boundaries and you take no accountability for that.
Because I didn’t feel that way and he mentioned it later… I only felt disrespected towards the end.. I thought he was genuine
It’s fine for you to feel that way but no matter what they’re just excuses for going against your boundaries or deal breakers. You can’t blame him for doing the exact same thing you did.
You’re not listening… he showed his true colors towards the end.. by then he dumped me.
But it’s okay. I hope him and his chick with sticks live a beautiful life lmaooo fuck it
I literally got traded for a trans and I discovered he’s quite gay. I won and he’s in denial
You’re the one not listening to anything anyone says, that’s why we said it’s like talking to the damn wall! My god you just don’t quit.
I hope he finds his perfect trans! I said what I said.. and upon following him on twitter a whole bunch of gay bottom content and tweets popped up.. yeah okay
He’s STRAIGHT
You probably drove him to homosexuality.
He been gay.. you believe me now?
So the reason his profile on tinder doesn’t show his preference is because it is set to men and non binary.. so that is my proof that he’s not straight and hasn’t been this whole time.
That is not proof! He probably has no idea his account has that setting and in any case, how did he come across your profile if you aren’t under man or nonbinary? It is so completely unhealthy, obsessive and WEIRD to stalk a man like this for over a year Chels.
How many accounts have you created to keep up with him or trick him into adding you?
You are so incredibly slow.. YOU PICK YOUR PREFERENCE ON YOUR PROFILE! That’s no accident!
I said you can pick more than one preference! Nonbinary and women.. duh!
The only way I could have popped up is if his settings were set to non binary!
You’re logic makes no sense, per usual. Bye!
You’re so moody today! It’s all good I’ve heard it all before.
Because you’re always taking up for him.. you’re really telling ME that you don’t feel that this man isn’t straight? Like at all? Even if he pursued women…
Anyone who disagrees with any aspect of your logic is taking up from him. You verbally attack people each and every time, it’s absolutely ridiculous how disinterested you are in thinking outside of this crazy ass storyline. Yes, I don’t know how many time or ways I can say I don’t think he’s gay and I’m not discussing his sexuality. You refuse to listen it’s like talking into the void.
So if you don’t want to discuss his sexuality then why do you think he’s not gay 🤷♀️ ?
Why would his profile pop up in non binary?
Why does he follow trans women? Who live near him and has naked photos?
You’re wrong as fuck for not even trying to hear me out. How can we disagree on something you literally don’t want to discuss
You’re incredibly annoying because you seem completely oblivious to everything being said to you. It’s as if you’re in your own world, and it’s beyond frustrating
stop responding and leave me alone even if you don’t agree just leave it , him and me alone. For you to have a so called fiance you sure have a lot of time on your hands… go fuck him or something… if he’s real…
Saying that I think someone is straight does not mean I’m opening a platform to discuss why I think their straight. And honestly why do you give so much of a fuck? Move on! He did not want you, point blank, the end! That’s not my fault.
Then stop talking, it’s simple. I didn’t return to this conversation, you did. Why? Because you’re obsessed with that man and you should be embarrassed at this point. I try to help you avoid legal issues by being like hey Chels, shut the fuck up stop talking about his sexuality so much. But you clearly don’t care about that anymore lol so strange.
HE didn't WANT ME BECAUSE HE LIKES DICKKKKKKKKK. HE SLEEPS WITH CHICKS WITH STICKSSS. HE WANTS A CHICK WITH A TOOL!!!
But you don’t see that you see my faults!!! As always? He is a liar and deceitful!
You have no proof that he specifically does any of that, you’re just drawing lines and creating narratives. That is slander. Keep doing that if you want but when he finds out, what do you think is gonna happen? It won’t make him miss you or regret his choices, it will CONCERN him and make him get a lawyer.
I’ve “slandered “ his name for 2 months now… it’s the fucking truth.. he’s not going to get A lawyer…
1. He’s an immigrant with issues with his work visa
2. He doesn’t want that on his record too..
I truthfully don’t care…. As long as I can hurt him back for what he’s did. I tagged his friends this time under his post on twitter…
He’s the devil
Why don’t you move tf on
He has to care in order to be hurt, or see your posts in general. I doubt he’s seen anything, so be grateful for that.
See? Verbal abuse because I don’t agree.
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He follows this but he’s straight? Get real
So you stole photos from the same two profiles you’ve been obsessing over for months, big deal. We don’t know why he’s following that content and will never get an explanation but in ANY CASE it does not matter.
Okay.. so when are you going to go away indefinitely? Forever? And ever? I’ve been waiting
Go fuck your man or something. Go be grateful you aren’t in my shoes. Go live your life.
Did you read that you’re extremely aggravating?
People deserve to know when they comment they’re speaking to a woman who’s fabricated the story or only tells the parts that warrant the response she wants. They also deserve to know they are wasting their time trying to “help” because you’ll be back the very next week rehashing the same talking points over and over and over. I like to remind you that people here (such as Spartan and myself) know what the fuck is going on and you aren’t fooling anyone. Sorry not sorry.
You’re just bitter that I spoil your pity party. Cope harder.
You guys don’t know what’s really going on either.. you guys couldn’t even tell me his real name so why would I GAF ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL!
Again you’re ANNOYING!!!
Lol didn’t you say you didn’t know his real name either?🤭 and I know facts can be pretty annoying when you’re in denial about them!
They can be very pesky.
Quite pesky!💀
I didn't because he had a false name but he did end up telling me
So then why were you saying it may not be his real name?
We are done. Never reply or respond. You don’t know him or me. Pay attention to your own life
And... checkmate
Bye 👋
find someone else