How can I become unattractive to the male gaze but still be pretty?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I did a poll to see what kind of dresses men prefer. You can use their dislike to help you figure out how best to dress.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i can't see the question, could u tell me the dresses that was disliked the most?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The flowy dress has the least amount of voted at 0

[Anonymous]

Cut your hair short and dye it blue, pierce your nose and tongue, dress badly, put on some weight, and just make yourself as ugly on the outside as you already are on the inside.

[SiegmundWalsung]

So you want to be attractive and not attractive at the same time?

Put this "male gaze" bs away for a second and make up your mind about what you want to do first.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr did, its all there in the question.

[Kayleigh2005]

U can't guys will start humping ur leg if you stand still long enough.

Also, you're lucky u don't know what they are thinking 🤣

[chocolatetwopointo]

what r they thinking?

[Sunlight4]

Why would you, just don’t pay attention to them

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont want them approaching me unless its necessary

[chocolatetwopointo]

and its js rude to ignore them

[Sunlight4]

Maybe

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym maybe?

[Sunlight4]

Maybe rude to ignore them, but isn’t rude to gaze at you!!!

[chocolatetwopointo]

and what can i do for them to not gaze at me

[Sunlight4]

I’d say make yourself didn’t see, you can DM if you want

[Anonymous]

You can't.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[Opinion Owner]

Boys are attracted to pretty girls. I don't know what else to tell you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok then dont respond?

[Opinion Owner]

You can ignore them or politely tell them you aren't interested.

[chocolatetwopointo]

that feels rude, easier to js try to make them leave me alone

[Opinion Owner]

Telling them you aren't interested isn't rude. Like I said, you can be polite about it. Nobody is for everyone and it's good for kids your age to learn this. Will make future rejection less painful.

[chocolatetwopointo]

I've heard loads of cases when men can't accept a no. i dont want anyone going up to me tho, is there nothing i can do to prevent it?

[Opinion Owner]

Most men aren't violent, but some might say something hurtful. But men shouldn't be approaching you at all. If grown men are approaching you, I would recommend giving them a fake number because those guys are more likely to be the type who wouldn't accept a "no"

Where are these boys approaching you? School? Coworkers? It's very unlikely they would get aggressive in public.

I don't think there's any way as boys/men don't have very high standards to begin with.

[Opinion Owner]

You could try looking mean. A lot of guys will find that intimidating, possibly too intimidating to approach you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i won't risk it tbh. no ones approaching me, i want to prevent it for the future. wdym by the last thing?

[chocolatetwopointo]

how can i look mean?

[Opinion Owner]

About looking mean? Just keep a serious/uninterested face. A lot of guys will assume they don't have a chance.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay ill try that