What to do if the guys that I'm not attracted to are consistent and put in effort but guys that are my type don't?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

What to do? Think. What attracts you? What do you want? What about the others that is not attractive?
Sometimes we are attracted to people who treat us poorly because we're used to it. If we didn't get much love growing up, then we may be suspicious of people who treat us kindly because it's unfamiliar. I was like that at your age and ended up in a disastrous marriage.

[spartan55]

I'd say do some self reflection and figure out why you are attracted to something that you shouldn't be. Girls tend to be attracted to guys who are turds. It's frustrating for the rest of us guys, trust me.

[Anonymous]

Maybe try dating someone who has put in constant effort. They may surprise you.

[Asker]

It's hard to get over that initial attraction

[Sunlight4]

Too sad, hopefully you find your type. Don’t give up hope.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Stay single until you're attracted to decent men

[Danny_dan92]

No clue.