Am I right? he’s gay?

[Anonymous]

OK, so I think the man that is interested in me is gay. I think he’s a closeted gay man. I throughly went through his social medias and this is what I noticed. on Twitter, he follows openly, gay men, and these gay men are not his mutuals meaning they have no idea who he is so they don’t follow him back. He just watches them. His music taste is very very feminine also. his two female best friends always post about how he has a new girlfriend every other week as if no woman is good enough. On Instagram it’s all women in his following list as on TikTok He talks about how much he “only loves black women.” His male friends look gay, but he doesn’t. I think he may be hiding the fact that he is, but where his attention lies tells on him. He gets and gives a lot of his attention online to and from gay men. based on this information, am I right? The man that’s interested in me is gay?

[Astarlessnightsky]

Unless you ask him directly, there is no way to be 100% sure.

Just because he follows this and that and listens to this and that music doesn't mean shit.

It only means he follows them, most likely because he enjoys the content.

[Asker]

ur right thank u

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is bi, not gay. Why would he be interested in you if he was gay?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It sounds like, at most, you’re not interested in him bc you don’t think he’s masculine enough. You don’t have to go accusing him of something you have no real evidence of instead of just saying you don’t want him.

[Rainbow_Boy]

How would you describe his interest in you? There may be a perfectly viable explanation for him being gay and showing you some sort of interest at the same time. I can elaborate on this possibility if you could provide some information on his interest towards you.

[236color]

It's hard to say, especially from a second hand description, but yeah, I kinda think so too.

[QuietRunner]

you are correct