Guys, why do guys get mad/upset when you reject them?

[Anonymous]

[RiseofArtemis]

I didn't really get mad or upset, I mostly was disapointed. I had spent months with her getting to know her and spending time with her, when I asked to make it more serious, the next step, she rejected me. I thought there were all the signs of attraction, mutual interest and a possible relationship to be official.

I'm someone who hates wasting time, be it mine or others and if something in the end doesn't go as I had anticipated it makes me feel angry, but I wouldn't be angry at the other person, but at myself for having wasted my time with something which in the end turned out to be worthless.

Perhaps that's because I've always learned to supress my emotions which made it fail and I have no idea where I had made a mistake with her. The only thing she said was that something she needs was missing and from my own knowledge it could only mean a handful of things.

One thing that I hate the most is when I'm not told what the problem is or why it didn't work, that's something that absolutely gets me ragging, since I'm a brutaly honest person to the point of downright hurting peoples feelings and having to hold back most of the time.

[Anonymous]

I've never gotten mad or sad about rejection. Once, I got pretty pissed about a girl completely belittling me when I asked her to dance. The rejection didn't matter at all, it was the belittling that pissed me off. Just like it would piss me off is she agreed to dance and still belittled me. Ya know, because people don't like to be deliberately insulted.

Literally every girl I've ever rejected got completely outraged, so I just switched to saying I'm married. It's still about 50/50 they get pissed off though.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because it sucks to put a bunch of effort into forming a connection with someone who doesn't reciprocate your feelings. Plus, there are a whole lot of women who make a point of being extremely unpleasant about their rejections. So it's not just "no" there's often an extra little knife twist to punish you for daring to try.

Most guys experience enough that rejection in life to the point it builds up a lot of frustration.

[Anonymous]

The answer to this question can be answered by placing yourself in a guys shoes. It doesn't dissolve men of the need for self control, but its a window into how uncomfortable rejection can be, which will allow you to see men as the human being they are, rather than disconnecting them from their emotions to such a degree that this is even a question.

[236color]

We get frustrated. When you try over and over and the girl picks the asshole over you every time. She whines and complains, and then goes out and picks another asshole. It gets old. So go chase your 6', 6 figure, 6 pack myth.

[Anonymous]

A lot of times it’s not the rejection itself but the way girls sometimes reject guys. Some women will spread rumors about the guys they reject so that nobody in their social circles will date him because he’s now worthless in her eyes. Women are especially cruel when dealing with guys they’re not interested in and will even dehumanize them just like the Germans did in the 1940s.

[KingslayerC]

This is a point that gets looked over in nearly every one of these conversations. A woman will completely disrespect a guy, instead of just saying "no" and pretend that it was the rejection that caused the reaction. That's like me punching a girl in the face for flirting with me, then saying she was only upset about me rejecting her.

And sometimes a guy isn't even flirting, but a girl randomly decides to bully him because he's ugly, and pretends he got mad about being "rejected."

[Anonymous]

What SHOULD they do? ... jump for joy and say "Oh I'm so happy, I was hoping you would do that!"?

I think they should say, "I'm sure you're going to reimburse me for those dates before I go right?"

[Asker]

What dates?

[Opinion Owner]

Okay so you didn't have any dates. But you really don't think it's that hard to understand do you? Do you know anyone who likes rejection?

[AaronKrieger]

You either mistreated them in the process or they took it personality.

[Vegasrunner]

It's because so many by into the notion that women are special when in reality they are simply a numbers game. The more you talk to the more your game improves and the better chance you have

[TonyMetal___86]

I never asked to be rejected and let's say i asked and i got rejected, so what? Thank you and i'll continue my life ordinary 😏

[Redgreenwood]

Its just hard for anyone guy or woman to accept rejection with how vulnerable you have to be to put yourself out there. Its always good to be rejected in a respectful way lol. Man or woman

[beefcakebradybatson]

Most of us (not I) think a rejection from any less than a 91/2 a blow to our masculine pride.

[This_Boy_Here]

To be fair, women get mad or upset when guys reject them too. It's not just men.

[Woody7793]

I don’t. Why should I? There’s another bus every 20 minutes.

[Jmmmfi4]

Any bitch that reject me I pray winds up in a pine box asap

Fuck that stupid slut

[Anonymous]

I don’t think I could get mad about a rejection anymore after the horrible relationship I just went through

[Anonymous]

it makes me think i will be forever alone,

[Asker]

But that's not true. It just means, she not the one for you. Keep looking. There's a girl for you.

[In_Trance]

Duh...