Men, why is it that I’m always hearing that y'all are “suffering in silence” but I’m always hearing about it?

[Breanna83727]

[Anonymous]

I think men are struggling to maintain relevance in modern society. We’re being outpaced in life by women in many respects, we’re not as educated, work crappier jobs and are unfairly treated when it comes to having access to our children.
Also we’re more likely to be incarcerated, killed at work, have mental health problems and commit suicide
Over the past 50 years we’re told by radical Marxist feminists that we are the problem with society, everything is the result of men oppressing women. The average young man today has no ability to even take care of himself let alone oppress women in his cohort.


I consider myself extremely fortunate I was born in the early 80’s and raised around very traditionally masculine men, the kind of men who told a boy to stand up for himself, never show weakness, pain is only temporary, “quit crying and be a man”.

We have the state telling boys they’re toxic and they need to be like women. It’s completely unacceptable and wrong, soon we will have no defenders left. It’s time we stood up against these blue haired land whales and told them they’re toxic. They are only angry because no man would ever have sex with them.

[lil_will_12]

And what are men protecting women from?🤔
Oh right, other men

This ideology that you have to “man up” is quite silly tbh. In this day and age, you shouldn't have to “act like a man” to be a man. Its ok to cry, in fact, keeping these emotions bottled up is what can create outbursts or even suicide.

Lastly, there are very few women that do what you say they do. Early feminists simply wanted the same rights💀 which i think was a pretty valid thing to fight for. But older social constructs still exist in our society, and that is what newer feminists have been fighting for; the dismantling if those old constructs, as well as advocate for how women have and still are treated, using many examples of SA or rape.

My only problem with this is when they blame men as a whole as the issue, which isn't quite true.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not okay to have a society full of weak men. Men were taught to be resilient, resourceful and physically capable. This is ideal for society in countless ways. Weak men raise weak offspring that further weaken society. We’re actually so weak that some men try to become women.

Men need to be educated and work hard.

Join the military
Become police officers
Put out fires
Build things
And so on….

Women in their late teens need to marry the strongest and most resilient man they can and have at least 3 babies with him. I see this as a fundamental principle that society needs. Otherwise our population will decline and we’ll be relying on foreigners to come in and replace our aging population.

[lil_will_12]

Right
And what happened to freedom of choice?

Also your population comment is wrong lol, we are still rising but will see a slow down and eventual fall in the future. You see, as people become SMARTER, they have less children.
Having 2 children technically keeps the population stable. I say technically bc not everyone will do what you do. Your 3 child idea is actually bad, and if everyone did it, it could lead to overpopulation and potential problems.

And also, joining the military is perhaps the dumbest thing you can do. Fighting for a country that doesn't even care for you. Fighting pointless wars that you dont even win, and dying for no reason. “Put out fires”? “Build things”? Yeah thats a firefighter and a construction worker my dude. Is it really a requirement for all men to be those?💀

Say what you think is good for this world, but i say your ideology is old, and our society has, and is changing.🤷‍♂️

[Opinion Owner]

Clearly you have bought into Marxism hook, line and sinker. Feminism is a product of communism and the aim was always to weaken western society. You weaken western society by attacking the population from within. The best thing a strong young American man can do is work hard, marry, make his wife pregnant and be a husband and father, teaching his sons to be strong men and his daughters to marry strong men. Weak pathetic losers will be unsuccessful in passing on their weakness.

[lil_will_12]

And clearly YOU have been exposed to too much anti-communism propaganda as a child. Just bc something doesn't aline with what you like doesn't make it marxist or communism😂 go and find the definition of those, and point out to me what i said exactly that falls under those catagories.

Femenism is a result of women becoming more educated, and realizing how unfair they are being treated. There is nothing in that type of ideology that would be wrong, unless it goes so far as to turn into misandry.

[Opinion Owner]

Feminism is really nothing, it wasn’t legal battles that made the lives of women easier it was advances in technology and modern medicine. I’d say people in the 50’s actually got a better education in school.

Feminism has caused nothing but misery in society.

It turns males into weaklings

It turns women into ugly, angry blue haired land whales.

[lil_will_12]

Im not suffering in silence🤷‍♂️

i think its a way to say that guys go through pain but dont complain about it. I think its a bit dumb tbh. If you are complaining about how you suffer alone and in silence, i think thats on you. You have the ability to talk to others about what you are going through, so unless the people you talk to turn you down, you have no one to blame but yourself

i also find it hilarious how some men want women to help fix the issues that those men themselves have caused.

[Agape93]

Because they're not suffering in silence, they just don't say it often openly because what they say online or in private would get the shit kicked out of them by other guys

[Nikki1989]

Yes, funny that!

[AaronKrieger]

Most men do not vent or complain much. Online, a lot have started to, but that doesn't represent most men in the real world.

The phrase likely started due to the right of suicides in men and likely due to the amount of men who did stay silent after the previous wars.

[Anonymous]

You’re hearing it as far as what we’re actually suffering from? Or that we’re just suffering in silence? There’s a difference. A lot of woke don’t listen to what men say. I truly think a lot of women don’t care about men’s feelings. Hearing is different from actually listening.

[Anonymous]

Hearing does not mean you actually are listening.🙄🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Men have been suffering in silence for decades. Only in recent years have they taken a page from the feminist playbook and begun whining incessantly about everything and playing the victim card at every opportunity.

[Anonymous]

I have never once heard that. Y'all. 🙄

[YourExLover69]

Me Suffering from boredom nothing else 🤣

[Anonymous]

Who tells you that we’re suffering

[Breanna83727]

It’s all over the internet and every guy I’ve been with has ALWAYS complained about everything. Nothing is in “silence”

[Opinion Owner]

Ok well

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Women ☕