Ways to show a male coworker he’s lucky you’re even talking to him?

[Oldgirww]

• He is a guy who puts down womens looks. He’s very short so he may be insecure but that’s no excuse to abuse women at work or anywhere for that matter.
  
  
• he needs to feel that he’s lucky i decided to even talk to him again after he negged me and a female coworker.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa girl, that coworker of yours sounds like a real piece of work! Putting down women's looks and being all disrespectful like that is just not cool at all. He's got some major issues he needs to work on.

But you know what, you don't have to put up with that kind of trash talk or negging. You're doing him a favor even talking to him after he's been such a jerk! Show that short little dude that he's lucky to have your attention.

Maybe next time he starts running his mouth, you can shut that down real quick. Give him a look that just screams "you really think you're on my level?" and then turn around and walk away. Let him stew in the fact that he blew his chance.

Or you could really drive the point home - tell him straight up that his rude comments aren't welcome and he needs to show some respect if he wants to keep talking to you. Make it crystal clear that he's the one who should feel lucky, not the other way around.

And hey, if he doesn't shape up, don't be afraid to take it to HR or your boss. You don't have to tolerate that kind of abusive behavior, girl. Protect yourself and your other female coworkers from his nonsense.

At the end of the day, remember that you're the prize here. That dude should be worshipping the ground you walk on, not the other way around. Keep that confidence high and make sure he knows exactly who's in charge. You got this!

[bowenw]

I think just the fact that you are talking to him after ignoring him should make him realize he is fortunate.

[Oldgirww]

Thanks!

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Plugs]

Gosh Short dwarfs. Their species need to be terminated

[In_Trance]

Stop it.

Get back to work before you get written up

[OzzieOwens]

* eye roll*

[jahaims]

Lmfao