Why does he stares but not say a word?

[Anonymous]

Me and my friend like each other but end of last year we had a problem. We haven’t spoke since. But we are in the same school and classes. Everytime I walk in class, he stares at me until I sit down. But he says nothing. Today him and his friend was in line behind me and my friend, but he said nothing…

I noticed if I caught him looking at me while he looked away on time, he still has the same expression of being nervous and butterflies around me as he did last year. So I feel like we still have mutual attraction. And no I’m not gonna approach him since I was the last person to text him by saying sorry and to talk about the situation, which he never reply.

Updates

1 y

I’ve been trying my best to not do any eye contact since I feel like he never say anything after our problem last year.

[SueShe]

You are in the age group 30-35, right?

I am asking because your question is more the one of a teenager aged 13-15 than of an adult with life experience.

He said nothing because he does not come across as having a crush on you and he wants to keep this crush secret because he is shy and does not want others to know about it.

It is his move to approach you and if he doesn't then you have only 2 choices.

1. Swallow your pride and do the first move or

2. Forget him and concentrate on your education first before getting into trouble with boys.

I believe that option 2 is what you should take because obviously you are in school and need to concentrate on your education first.

[Wise4myage]

He’s very, very shy.

[Asker]

I’d wonder why he be so shy after he never reply to my apology though…

[Wise4myage]

Good question

[Asker]

do you know why he would be like that?

[Wise4myage]

Ask him?