Why would a guy show he's interested in you and care for you but made a rule where we can have sex but can't fall in love?

[Anonymous]

He cared for me and gave me act of service without me asking. He even gave me jewelleries and food. When I almost fall for him and willing to have sex with him, he made the rule. Im confused. He showed signs that he's interested in me?

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He rarely bring food when he travels but once we had a trip together with friends, he brought my favourite food. Even another time, he came to another building just to see me wearing the necklace he bought for me.

[Godihateyou]

He sounds like a smart guy. You should listen to him

[Asker]

what do u mean smart? 😅

[Godihateyou]

adjective
1.
informal
having or showing a quick-witted intelligence.
"if he was that smart he would never have been tricked"
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quick-witted
nimble-witted
shrewd
astute
acute
apt
able
well educated
well read
perceptive
percipient
discerning
brainy
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on the ball
quick on the uptake
genius
whip-smart
Opposite:
stupid
2.
(of a device) programmed so as to be capable of some independent action.
"hi-tech smart weapons"
verb
(of a wound or part of the body) feel or cause a sharp stinging pain.
"her legs were scratched and smarting"
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noun
1.
informal•North American
intelligence; acumen.
"I don't think I have the smarts for it"

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 because you allow it.

Why does a dog lick it's balls? Because it can.

[Valdemort]

Is he a lover-boy?

[Asker]

im not sure but he is a gentleman guy i could say. im confused since he was the one approached me by giving me gifts and being caring and when i almost fall for him, he made the rule before sleeping with him.

[Valdemort]

So he wants to be friends with benefits. That's his deal. Or he wants to have all the perks of a relationship, without the title, so he can do whatever he likes and you can't be upset about it, cause he told you - no feelings involved. Boy bye

[Asker]

damn why he's so red flag :’) he made the first move and bought me jewelleries. and showed a lot of act of service without me asking. it really seems he likes me, even my friends could see it too.

[Valdemort]

If he likes you, he wouldn't tell you there couldn't be any falling in love.

[Asker]

hm okay. guys in this generation.. i wish he told earlier

[Anonymous]

hum.. whos gonna tell her?