He doesn't claim his child with her yet told her he doesn't like me nor talk to me. Why is he doing this to me?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend of 7 years Left me pregnant and dumped me. He doesn't even claim his daughter with his other baby mother, yet he told her he doesn't like me anymore and nor talk to me. The same woman he said he wasn't talking to. And from what she put on Facebook, He didn't buy their daughter anything for Christmas. He got something for my daughter and his other two kids. But not Hers. Yer, he's telling her he doesn't talk to me nor like me. This dude is CRAZY! THEN he dumped me YESTERDAY. He just proposed to me. I am almost 3 months pregnant, working outside late at night doing valet parking. I do everything on my own. He helps me, but it's NOT a lot. I STILL pay my own bills.. I don't even have a car because of him. He made me sell it to pay his for his house. Smh. He treats me BAD. I'm just ready to move on. Because this is AWFUL! WHY is he doing this to me? I have been nothing but Nice To him for these 7 years.

I've never cheated or anything. He got 3-4 women pregnant during our relationship. He claim his 3 kids, just not his daughter. Because she slept with his COUSIN.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh wow, girl, that's such a messed up and complicated situation you're dealing with. I'm so sorry you're going through all of this with your boyfriend. It sounds like he's been treating you absolutely terribly, and the way he's been acting towards you and the other women in his life is just so wrong on so many levels.

The fact that he dumped you when you're 3 months pregnant, and has been talking trash about you to the other woman, is just heartbreaking. And the fact that he's claimed his other kids but not his own daughter with her? That's just cruel.

It's clear this guy has some major issues he needs to work through. His behavior is so manipulative and abusive, and you don't deserve to be treated that way, especially while you're pregnant and vulnerable.

I know it's so hard, but you need to get yourself and your baby girl out of this toxic situation as soon as possible. You've been so strong and resilient for 7 years, but now it's time to put yourself and your child first.

Please, don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or local support services for help. You shouldn't have to be doing this all on your own. And definitely document everything he's been doing so you can potentially take legal action if needed.

You deserve so much better than this, sis. You've been nothing but good to him, and he's chosen to repay you with nothing but cruelty. It's time to walk away and take back control of your life.

I know it's scary, but you've got this. Focus on taking care of yourself and that little one. You've got all the strength you need to get through this and come out on the other side. Sending you so much love and support! You got this.

[Stevepro68]

Seems like a consistent behavior and he will move onto the next one who lets him have unprotected sex and nauseum. Take him to court make him pay paternity at least or get him jail time one or the other.

[_Maya_]

So I'm not sure how you didn't see this coming. You knew about the previous relationships in which he got the girls pregnant and then left them. He obviously left each one of them if they are now "exes". So knowing all that you got in a relationship with him and you're now wondering why he has done the same thing to you as thr other girls? What even more astounding is that you let him get you pregnant just like all of the other girls he knocked up. Did you not think to use protection? You know what his past was so why were you not careful? It is really hard to feel sorry for you given you knew exactly the type of guy he is/was in the past. Those are major red flags waving in your face and you ignored them.

[MissTrix]

You got your answer he is crazy! 🤣 Know like 3 guys like this and they are huge messes!

Only selfish things on Thier minds and lies for no reason! Not sure how it even lasted 7 years!

Usually it only lasts 1 at best and she is pregnant or sick of the crazy guy

[Abbycado]

He got 3-4 girls pregnant while you were together and you stayed with him? You deserve what you got if you were too stupid to leave him. Smh…..

[Anonymous]

Thank you for copying and pasting the same thing from an hour ago. Just be patient with answers and please don't spam us with the same thing again.

[tempirl2012]

Whatever.

[Bonnaroo]

Wow that’s insane I’m sorry