He cheated, I broke up with him. I’m pregnant, he’s treating me like a stray dog. Do I keep expressing how I don’t like the way he yells at me?

[Tennesseebutterfly]

I posted in here before. I had caught him cheating. He went to a strip club with his cousin and waited for the stripper to get off of work. I broke up with him and recently his mom started reaching out.

I’m really struggling today. His message was so cold and dismissive. I’m pregnant and don’t want to be sad and crying but I can stop crying as of today 😪

I feel like something is wrong with me. I don’t want to be with him. it’s just they do all these awful things and then discard you and treat you as if you’re some disgusting thing on the bottom of your shoe for sticking up for yourself. I broke up with him but felt at least we could coparent.

The last time we actually spoke was when he came to my house and was yelling at me because he’s upset I’m keeping the baby after I broke up with him. After I broke up with him he said “you’re gonna be sitting waiting for an apology you’re never going to get”

This is the first thing he’s said to me since that day (6 weeks ago) I feel so low and depressed today. no acknowledgment of the way things have been going, not even a question about the baby. I feel so small and don’t know how to go from here.

The Green is what I actually said to his mom. The grey and blue is him and myself.

[Apple1996]

Ignore him. Any man that cheats on his woman while pregnant is not gonna make a good dad. He's lucky your even considering co parenting

[Tennesseebutterfly]

Thanks I didn’t know how to add photos but I was able to after. The texts are on my post in “guys behavior”

[Tennesseebutterfly]

he’s been so disrespectful and cold I don’t know how to pick up conversation with him in the future. I don’t want him on the birth certificate or anything he’s been treating me like garbage

[MrCommodore]

Sounds like your words are no longer listened to by him, he feels your trapped no matter how he behaves. Maybe the only option is to move on from him, being mistreated for the rest of your life won't give you a happy life.

[MementoMori777]

You can argue with a wall, just considering living a life with him as little as possible in your life, best of luck

[Anonymous]

You are wasting your time expressing it because he won't listen but you do need to work out something so that you can co-parent. Whatever you do, don't use the baby as ammunition to get back at him for whatever he has done to you. The baby is innocent

Right now your focus has to be on you and your baby. Keep communication between you and him only about the baby and nothing else

[Anonymous]

This POS is a stone cold loser. Don't rationalize his actions. Just keep your baby and tell him to fuck off.

[Anonymous Asker]

Thanks, it’s been hard. It’s like he’s upset so every word he spews at me is cold. He’s the one who messed up. It’s just been hard. I don’t know how to have communication again in the future. I don’t want to reach out to someone that doesn’t respect me and speaks to me full of hate

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah there's toxic people. Just be happy for your baby then.

[spartan55]

I mean the guy most likely showed you who he was early in the relationship. He didn't just transform into a shithead overnight.

[mommymommymommy]

You broke up with a cheater, now you're pregnant.

You made your bed, now you have to lie in it

[Anonymous Asker]

I was already pregnant for sometime before I found out and broke up with him

[mommymommymommy]

Yeah, ad yet you broke up with him

[Anonymous Asker]

? I was supposed to stay? He hooked up with a random stripper he could’ve gave me anything. What are you even saying

[Anonymous]

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