So I emailed my crush that I liked him, as I thought we had a mutual attraction going on, eg he’d regularly check me in, lock eyes in an intense gaze, get fidgety/nervous when one to one, he’d always act super helpful and caring etc. Anyway this seemed to be building for the past 4 months and continuing on, so I thought I would just tell him, as it was getting a bit intense.
He would regularly stare at me or check me out, wave, say hello, but not approach for some reason.
Then we went to a Christmas party, and he emailed me the day before saying he would see me there. It took a while to approach each other, we were talking to other people (I think we are both a bit shy) and he walked past me and said hello. Then I bit the bullet and tried to make conversation. We ended up speaking for the rest of the night
I don’t have his number but have his email, so I wrote to him on Thursday and just said that I was really attracted to him and that I felt I needed to tell him in case he thought I wasn’t and that if I had got it wrong to tell me, so I could get over my crush. I also put my mobile number in the email.
ideally I would have liked to have told him face to face, but I haven’t had the opportunity. I also don’t know if he has a girlfriend etc, he’s never said anything about his relationship status.
Anyway, he hasn’t responded as yet and today I saw him unexpectedly. I got a bit nervous because I had sent it, so I looked away quickly and then looked up to see him giving me a side stare (no smile) and then he like strutted off in a show off kind of way.
Confused!
Now I feel a bit of an idiot that I confessed especially via email and vulnerable that I don’t know if he’s seen it or not and now I wonder if he will actually respond at all and what he’s really thinking. I guess I emailed because I felt a bit shy…it’s been 4 days should I have expected a response by now?
Girl's Behavior
Guy's Behavior
Flirting
Dating
Relationships
Fashion & Beauty
Health & Fitness
Marriage & Weddings
Shopping & Gifts
Technology & Internet
Break Up & Divorce
Education & Career
Entertainment & Arts
Family & Friends
Food & Beverage
Hobbies & Leisure
Other
Religion & Spirituality
Society & Politics
Sports
Travel
Trending & News
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
0Opinion
Well... things can happen with email. It could have gone to his spam folder depending on how he has his email set up. You can really filter things even down to only receiving email from only approved email addresses. So there is the possibility that he never saw it. The other possibitlity is that he did see it and has no idea how to respond to such a confession or he is not interested. No matter the case it is impossible for any of us to know whether he did or didn't get the mail and what his reaction was. If you know this guy and don't know the answer then none of us who don't know you or him are going to know. What you can do (if you feel so inclined) is reach out to him in a text or preferrably a call. That is entirely up to you.
Thanks, yeah I think I’ll leave it a while longer and then call him.
It’s possible the email went to a spam folder and he didn’t see it. But my guess is, he’s not man enough to be honest with you so he’s just gonna avoid you.
Thanks, why do you think he can’t be honest.. what would be the reasons for that?
Do you think it’s because he’s not bothered? If so why wouldn’t he just say like I asked in my email?
Be the first guy to share an opinion
and earn 3 more Xper points!