Is it good to talk to my crush in front of his friends?

[Sugar100]

we have talked before few times in the past weeks but we haven’t had long convo yet.

he is now friends with 2 guys. One of them is a guy that likes me and we talked before he’s very friendly but he wanted to be my boyfriend and I rejected him and we no longer talk. He had wanted to spend all breaks lunch with me daily as he was trying to be my boyfriend but I didn’t like him back. And I had to end things.

but now I see that guy is coincidently friends with the guy I like.
since I now see him outside for break, I’m thinking stand outside wait for him and approach him. As that’s only way to find him to have chance talk.

but his friends will be outside Afar waiting for him and they’ll see me talking to him, is this good , bad? I heard guys act different when thier friends are around so I fear it won’t be romantic talk or he’ll he aloof. Cuz his friends are there watching us.
Or they’ll be happy for him and gossip to him later about me and what they think of me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tough situation you've got there, girl. I can see the appeal of wanting to talk to your crush when you have the chance, but you're right to be a little cautious about doing it in front of his friends.

On one hand, his friends being around could make him a bit more reserved or awkward, and it might not give you the chance to really connect with him in a more romantic way. Guys can definitely act differently when their buddies are around, and they might even give him a hard time about talking to you.

But on the other hand, his friends might be cool about it and even happy for him. If they know you've rejected the other guy who's friends with them, they might be rooting for you and your crush to hit it off. And who knows, maybe they'll even help get the conversation flowing.

I guess it kind of depends on the vibe of the group and how confident you feel about talking to him, even with them around. If you feel like you can hold your own and steer the conversation in a more personal direction, then go for it. But if you're worried it'll just be super awkward with them there, you might want to try catching him on his own another time.

The most important thing is that you feel comfortable and not super self-conscious. If having his friends there is gonna make you clam up, it might be better to wait for another opportunity. You want the interaction to feel natural, not forced.

Just use your best judgment, girl. If you go for it and it feels off, don't be afraid to wrap it up quickly. Your comfort and confidence should be the priority. Wishing you all the best! Let me know if you need any other advice.

[Sugar100]

It’ll be hard catch him another time alone it’s already been many weeks we r unable to talk and just glance at eachOther.

So instead of waiting for the day he comes near me again I want try wait for him even if his friends are there staring at us Afar. I don't know

[Oliverlogan263]

You know, I get why you're feeling antsy to try talking to him, even with his friends around. If you've already been waiting for weeks to connect, I can see why you don't want to let another opportunity slip by.

And you're right, it might be really hard to find a moment alone with him, especially if you're only seeing him during group situations. So trying to chat with him even when his friends are there might be your best shot.

Just be prepared that it might feel a little more awkward or stilted with the audience. His friends might be watching closely and that could make your crush retreat into his shell a bit. But hey, at least you'll be taking that first step to talk to him directly.

My advice would be to try to keep the conversation light and casual. Don't put too much pressure on it to be this big, romantic moment. Just focus on getting to know him a little better, asking questions, and letting the conversation flow naturally.

And try not to worry too much about what his friends will think. If they're true friends, they'll probably just be happy to see him talking to someone he seems interested in. And who knows, maybe they'll even give you a little boost afterwards.

The most important thing is that you go for it, girl. Even if it's not perfect, you're putting yourself out there and showing your crush that you're interested. That takes guts! So I say go for it. What's the worst that could happen?

Just be confident, be your awesome self, and see where it goes. You got this! Let me know how it turns out - I'm rooting for you!

[LiamS95]

You always complain on here about never having a boyfriend and being alone yet you now tell us about how you reject guys you liked, is it any wonder why you're alone and single.

[Sugar100]

No it’s not a guy I like. I rejected a guy I don’t like.

[Sugar100]

I’m talking about a guy I like and the other guy is his friend I don’t like.

[LiamS95]

You're too picky those guys are probably identical

[Sugar100]

They aren’t

[LiamS95]

Or so you think, most guy buddies are very similar in almost every way.

[Jennz6]

No, he might not like you to speak in front of his friends. So wait until you are alone with him.

[Sugar100]

Why he won’t like it?

[Sugar100]

The issue is , that’s the only time I can talk to him, at break when I see him go outside while his friends r farther away waiting for him.

Or wen job ends and as he’s exiting the same spot , go talk to him but his friends might be there outside Afar and watch us talk

[Sugar100]

There was a chance last wk to talk aloen inside but I missed that chance , it was when he tried Pursue me on his own appear near me on purpose.

[Sugar100]

But since I missed that chance now I’ll need go put effort look for him to talk to show my interest.

[Jennz6]

@Sugar100
Well, take a chance, I hope you don’t get in trouble

[Sugar100]

Why I’ll get in trouble?

[Jennz6]

@Sugar100 figure it out girl

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes it's okay but you won't talk to him 😉

[Awantika03]

It's ok

[Sugar100]

His firends will be happy or what they will think?

[Awantika03]

Don't know what they think 💬