Even if I give up on dating, I still have to feel inferior when talking to men in social situations. Tips?

[Bethany22]

While it's one thing to give up on finding a boyfriend/husband, it's another to have thick skin when still having to interact with men in social situations, whereby they constantly imply my inferior worth by never making eye contact with me during group discussions, or they look right past me as they try to talk to a woman hidden behind me.

[MissTrix]

Yoir amazing and it's just the vibe you give off! Your why and being shy does not make you worthless!

Your amazing and sweet and girl id so invite you to my lesbian bed with my girlfriend!

Grew up shy felt invisible till my health teacher talked to us about vibes and how you appear to others.

Small things and just how you feel about yourself are shown wordlessly to others. Change some of these and you will be noticed and admired!

Your smart pretty and nice so just need to change some social habits and every one will admire you. Cheer leaders don't get to be the center of attention just cause she is pretty! It's attitude and behavior!

[Shy_Steve]

According to your profile, Your Attractive and I understand you can feel inferior in social situations, But that's normal.

Guys that do that because they are intimidated by you because of your beauty, Same as you can be with them.

You have to make it easy for him to approach you and that you would like it and you would not say no, As soon as a Guy sees that he will approach you

So you could just say hi to him and ask him for help with something or ask him a question about him that he would have to explain asking those basic questions where does he live and where does he go to school and find something you both like then you then you could just ask him to do something with you like go for a drink or something that you know he would like, It's east.

Trust me, It's a lot easier for you to do that than it is for him.

[lightbulb27]

I'm at a loss. It must be your attitude. Id suggest hiring a few guys to date you and give a report. or dating coach.

[Kelley1]

98% of the time success and confidence are the same. A 5-star basketball player, was the best in grade school, the best in middle school, and the best in high school. Since he always won; how could he not be confident?

If as a child, you looked like Jordyn Reinle with everybody oohing and ahhing almost every minute of every day, you would full of confidence.

[Shiprex]

It's not your inferior worth but their anxiety at being stared through.

Looking at someone sternly like you're about to stab them in the face isn't something that most guys who respect you would care to endure.

If you seek there attention then pause what you're saying, talk slower softer and then they'll be more amenable to your personality. Being brash isn't something many men want because it gives of vibes of chaos and drama. Not something many respectful blokes are after.

[Anonymous]

I could be wrong but I doubt they think you’re inferior. A lot of people don’t look at people directly in the eyes when talking. Could be they’re shy, lack confidence or that they feel it’s disrespectful to look someone directly in the eyes like in some cultures. I think all of this is just your perception of what you think reality is.

[AnonAndrew]

It's either in your head, or there is something about the impression you give off.

What you describe is not normal, and most men don't treat women in that way. It can happen, but if it's your normal experience, then there's an issue.

[molonski2]

I think the problem is solely with you , your attitude and your thoughts , you need to lighten up , have respect and respect will follow you.

[LiamJHayden]

You should never feel inferior to anyone because you aren't. Sure the other person might have more knowledge or experience in some areas, but that does not make you inferior as a person.

[Sunrising]

I'd suggest it could be males are nervous with dealing with you.

[DJB72]

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent...

[Anonymous]

You're letting your insecurity convince you that guys think you are inferior. But in reality, it's you who thinks you're inferior.

[Twalli]

I don't make eye contact with anyone if I can avoid it.

[Jerre]

I would look straight into your eyes, try to see what you are thinking. Just be yourself!

[MikeRJ]

You don't "have to" feel anyway. It is up to you.

[UknowJT93]

it's better men keep trying... Am I correct?

what's the boundary keep trying & No means No

[Anonymous]

Here I think you lost this.

::::::holds up spine::::::

[Anonymous]

Maybe take a dating class?

[jahaims]

You are super insecure

[shortster]

Why are you giving up on dating?

[seeyounexttuesday]

None of this is true.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just be yourself and your be fine

[NathanDavis]

therapy...