What do you think if a guy keep talking about his experience?

[Lolalollll17]

So I met a man for hook up, made it very clear from the start I was only in to hook up since i was just a tourist and he also a digital nomad. He’s like very kind/thoughtful in a non sexual way like notice small details that might make me uncomfortable. After hooking up we chatted a bit and I was about to go home but he was a bit surprised and asked me to stay 5 more mins, which ended up to be 1-2 hour, the thing is he just talked a lot like talked about places he’s been, showing me photos on his phone, his work and even about some girl he met from tinder before. What does it actually mean? And even when I was about to go home, he checked many times until i arrived back safely, chatted a bit how he couldn’t go to sleep and I left him on read.

im just wondering what might be in that guys mind? Specially since he talked a lot, maybe he’s just talkative? I somehow feel bad cause he seemed sweet and I don’t want to feel like a jerk who’s just looking for sex

[SueShe]

He may want more from you than simply fornicating once in a while. He was aware that copulating is the only thing that you were interested in but he may have wanted a little more than just a few muscular contractions and spasms.

You made it clear to him that you were lacking self-esteem by doing what you wanted with him but he thought that there was more to you than just this loss of dignity from your side.

You describe yourself pretty well but he thought that he saw more in you than what you really are. Those are called feelings, something you totally failed to show him.

[Abbycado]

Why overthink this? He was just being nice. He didn't want to treat you like a whore.

[Lolalollll17]

True, I would like to think so also, it’s not that i like him but it just kinda make me feel bad if he thinks im just there for the sex and being cold to him after

[Abbycado]

Okay so then just spend a little time. Is it that big of a deal?

[chefsam]

Sounds like he wants friends with benefits. After a hook up, talking for like 10, 15 minutes after is alright. But almost 2 hours and really trying to have a conversation with you, he has some interest in you

[bowenw]

I get the impression he was hoping for more of a relationship with you than was possible.

[HungTexan]

It sounds complicated. Why not ask him?

[In_Trance]

You're overthinking