Opinion of shy guys?

[Sssssshhhhh123]

What are some signs you show when you really like a woman but you are shy?

If a woman expressed that she liked you what would you do?

Run and hide?

Tell her you aren’t interested in dating but then still hang out and do things people dating do?

Or be honest with her that you are shy and want to take it slow?

[Summeroflove]

Figuring out if someone’s shy or not interested can be a little harder. The best way to judge is getting to know someone over time… Are they cold. Distant. Dry towards you? Do they seem nervous because they’re genuinely uncomfortable around you? Or nervous because they are attracted.

Do they start opening up more to you as time goes on? Things of that nature but I would just directly ask someone. Yes rejection is scary but at least you’ll know so you’re not wasting time.

As far as dating. Some people loose interest when someone’s shy around then others think it’s cute.

[bowenw]

Hang around her and hope she says something.

[Sssssshhhhh123]

So she says something to you about how she likes you after getting to know you a bit? lol run and hide? 🫣

[bowenw]

If we know she likes us, that goes a long way to reduce the shyness.

[Sssssshhhhh123]

By a long way do you mean like it helps reduce the shyness? Would it still take awhile to break out of your shell even knowing? It would be easier I’m assuming because you don’t have the question in the back of your head is she just being nice or does she like me?

[bowenw]

That is exactly what I meant, that it would help reduce the shyness. Personally it would still take a while to break out of the shell as trust is built.

[Sssssshhhhh123]

Makes sense thank you for clarifying. I know there are a lot of women out there that don’t have patience for the shy guys I used to be one of them but with age that’s changed. I feel like being patient with someone you really like it’s worth the wait. All the men I have gone for in the past were outgoing and pushy. I never really gave a shy guy a chance until recently. I’m learning it’s nice to take things really slow and really get to know people before jumping into something it never lasts when you move quickly. I have discovered that giving people space and time is beautiful. Dealing with a shy guy is new to me but it teaching me a lot. Just curious what goes on inside of his mind. He’s not very good at expressing his feelings but he shows with action he’s interested and cares.

[bowenw]

He is lucky to have someone like you that sees his value and is willing to take the time to get to know him. Hopefully you will be rewarded with a loving long-term relationship for your patience.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[molonski2]

For Shy dudes , its going to depend on who is expressing this interest so the answer could be any of those options plus others , just make it super obvious to them and give them an option to easily contact you.

[Sssssshhhhh123]

What other ways would shy guys show or express interest in your opinion? I’m genuinely curious.

[molonski2]

Well , they are not natural communicators , so really it could be anything..
Just be super forward.. put it out there !

[glennos89]

I'm a very shy guy and I love it when a girl lets me know that she likes me. It makes it 100x easier for me to be able to get myself to open up to her

[Sssssshhhhh123]

Even after a woman opens up about her feelings and it makes it easier, do you think it would still be a slow process in getting comfortable with your feelings?

[glennos89]

Yeah I have autism which makes it incredibly hard to feel comfortable. Woman have to be a little more patient with me because of tha.

But on the positive note she doesn't have to be scared that I'm going to cheat on her because it takes time for me to be able to have sex with someon

[Sssssshhhhh123]

Makes total sense. I was in a long horrible relationship prior to meeting this guy and I honestly just don’t know how this all works anymore lol. It’s all very confusing and I think I have developed a little social anxiety.

I don’t want to over step any boundaries or make him feel uncomfortable.

Honestly I don’t know how some people can have sex so easily it takes me a long time to get and be comfortable with someone as well. I think when someone can move slow it makes sex more meaningful. Which it should be!

[glennos89]

You are going to make him uncomfortable anyways.

Just make sure you are both on the same page and if he really wants you to take his virginity then it might help if you take it 1 step further then the last time to build it up slowly.

Honestly I'm not sure why a virgin guy is interesting for a woman with experience. I don't think he will be able to sexually satisfy you tbh 😅🙈

[Anonymous]

If I were a shy guy I would pick the last option, but sadly a lot of shy guys pick one of the first two

[Sssssshhhhh123]

If I were a shy guy which clearly I’m not lol. I’d pick the last one too!

[Opinion Owner]

Me too! I like shy guys in general, but some of them are so shy you can’t really interact with them

[Sssssshhhhh123]

I really like shy guys too. They are so sweet! It makes it so hard to read them and interact for sure!

[Opinion Owner]

Totally

[NicholasRedone]

Crawls into my turtle shell 🐢 👀

[Sssssshhhhh123]

What’s your reason why you run and hide?

[MikeRJ]

I would love a woman showing interest in me. Why would I be shy if I knew she would accept a date with me if I asked her out?

[Sssssshhhhh123]

Good question! I’m curious too…