Why do so many men just ghost and not communicate to end things?

[Anonymous]

I know women ghost a lot too but I feel some of us make the effort communicate the issue they’re having. Or maybe that’s me

I do believe there’s men that communicate and properly end things but it seems rare

[chefsam]

Could be cause they got what they wanted outta the relationship or whatever you guys had going on, maybe lost interest in you, found out you cheated on him or maybe found out you been using him for your personal gain. But it goes both ways, both guys and women do it to each other. There really isn’t a correct answer for that; could be thousands of reasons, take your pick

[Asker]

Valid reasons. I just believe ghosting isn’t good or healthy unless the person is abusive or dangerous. We all need to communicate better with one another. I think simply just lost interest

[chefsam]

True. Also, maybe another reason why we ghost whoever is cause we’re afraid of the reaction or response to whatever it is they wanted to say

[Asker]

That’s very apparent. The response is scary but what isn’t

[YourExLover69]

Well I can also complain the same about girls/women too. In reddit and on this website as well lot of girls have ghosted/stopped talking after good conversations.

Some people have such nature. Too lazy to say something or way too busy to communicate. In the end I remain single 😔 This era is complex.

[Asker]

I believe that too! I think it’s how times are today. Im sure people ghosted a lot back in the day too but technology makes it so easy.

Ghosting is unhealthy and hurtful. I wish better for us. Sometimes I need time to think so I take a day or two but ultimately, I tell them it’s not working and why. I’ve never had an ex tell me why they left, would just ghost

[YourExLover69]

I agree with you. Ghosting is immature. People should continue contact. Unless one partner is very rude. Then other would stop replying him/her.

[Asker]

I don’t think they have to continue contact, but if it’s not working just let them know and end contact unless abuse, rude, or disrespectful

[YourExLover69]

I stopped talking with rude and racist girls in the past. Probably two girls. It was online. Other than that I never ghosted/stopped talking with anyone. I'm chatty guy and ask lot of random questions 😂

[Asker]

That’s good!! Same here ☺️

[YourExLover69]

... So you are chatty girl too?
Or ask lot of random questions as well 😊
If so maybe we can be good friends 😀
If you want we should talk or follow each other profile 😊

[In_Trance]

Because they see no value in communicating any further

[Asker]

Which is understandable, I just think ghosting is very unhealthy unless the person in question is dangerous or abusive

[In_Trance]

That's your opinion vs other people who have a different perception of value. Not saying you're wrong; but they're not wrong either. You only have so much time left in this life; why would you waste in in a situation that will give you nothing in return? Rhetorical question.

[Asker]

I don’t expect time in a situation. It takes no time to simply say, “hey this isn’t working for me, wish you the best”

[In_Trance]

Again you're not wrong and it takes no time but I'm telling you it clearly there's people out there that believe this is too much of their time to bother. There's no value or pay off for them to tell you that

[Asker]

That’s true yes. I think there’s a payoff but like you says not everyone does

[Asker]

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[Anonymous]

. You were totally right everybody does it. But guys seem to do it more due to the fact that I getting what they want

[biraileeşkadını]

"Because you are nothing to him."

[Ariesman81]

Probably cause y'all don't listen anyway

[Asker]

Least liked opinion here^ everyone else has been sensible

[Ariesman81]

Boo hoo.

[Asker]

Indeed!