Is it comforting to know people who don't hold anything against you?

[Anonymous]

I had a misunderstanding and I'm so used to people just blaming me and throwing it back in my face

that i expected it with this person but no he held a conversation and let me explain and he also

is it something that I'm trying to get used too

is it freeing for you guys too?

[Anonymous]

In all honesty I don’t care. I’ve been a lone wonderer of this earth as far as friends ever since I got out of the military. Sure I know some people at work, but I don’t have what you would call friends. I’ve never met friends like I did in the military. Some people may say that’s sad, pathetic, or whatever, but I’m content w me. It just means to me I’m confident in myself, in what I do. That I don’t need another man’s approval or attention to validate who I am. I’m secure in what I do, what I say. I’m resilient. I do have a wife, so I’m not a complete loner. We’ve been together for 17 years. I also have brothers, who I hang out w when we get time. So no it doesn’t matter to me if someone is holding something against me.

[strateguy632]

It is!

[Asker]

I'm just not used to it at all

He said we're friends