Someone else just mentioned this is occurring with her boyfriend and his best girlfriend and she's getting the short end of the stick.
You need to leave this woman in the dust. If you aren't her first priority, and you aren't being considered to go traveling on weekends TOO, something is wrong. I mean, if there was a girls' weekend and the next weekend YOU TWO were going out, that would be fine. But that's not the case you're stating, is it?
I think this happens a lot. Sounds like it's the end of the road and your girl is foot-dragging before her ACTUAL exit. Why not cut bait and get it over with. She doesn't sound that into you, sir. It's sad, but true.
And you shouldn't be bothering your head with what she's actually up to with her girlfriend. Maybe it is her new thing. But maybe it's just her new avocation since she's done with you, but not doing the DONE.
Don't WAIT TO BE DUMPED. Exit gracefully and cry in your beer quietly. You'll be able to get over it and move on. You're foot-dragging too. STOP IT!!! Best love and kisses and good luck.
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I feel like distance makes the heart grow fonder so it could be a healthy change, it’s important to not let worry and insecurities rule over your expectations, I would say since you are still choosing to be in the relationship give it some time then after maybe close to 2 months of space try to make plans to go on a trip together and see what happens, as for the friend just act accepting so she may feel comfortable telling you details of what they are planning and doing more, that would give you the opportunity to catch any inconsistencies.
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Going on vacation with a boyfriend is totally different with friends and while both are fun, a lot of the time I just want to go with friends too because it's a different kind of fun. As long as she still regularly keeps in touch I don't think that's really a big deal, a lot of girls like to just spend time with girl friends, especially since you guys have been arguing she probably needs a bit of time to get over it
Nope. I dont trust anyone but the Lord anyways
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