Is this a healthy habit or am I just being paranoid?

[Anonymous]

So I have dealt with guys who texted often as well as texted back quickly and these guys turned out to be red flags/not good for me. Although the texting back fast and often weren’t really the reason why those guys weren’t good for me. It was their intentions behind their enthusiasm with texting that made it a red flag. Now when decent guys do that to me I automatically assume the worst even though they could mean well.

[WhitneySnow]

Some good guys also text a lot. Don’t assume every guy who does it is a player.

[nicfire171]

I think that’s being paranoid. I text back quickly purely from my own anxiety that a girl will hate me if I don’t. Or think I’m not interested.

[Asker]

I get that but I have dealt with guys who did that just to love bomb and gaslight and that has scarred me lol

[nicfire171]

Yes I get that. So just be cautious and focus more on the words rather than the speed by which they text.

[Anonymous]

Different people have different texting habits. I'm personally a terrible texter.