When I was at an event I was coming from the restroom and a guy that also there at the swing dance was standing in the hallway?

[Anonymous]

as I walked by staring and smiling. Then a month later when I was at another dance I was sitting down and he came over and stood next to me, smiled and then walked away. I was wondering what it means? I was walking towards a guy that was also there at the swing dance and I walked by he was staring and smiling. Then a month later when I was at another dance I was sitting down and he came over and stood next to me, smiled and then walked away? Also he’s been coming to the first Friday blues dances and the third Sunday blues dance and the third Sunday blues dance which he wasn’t coming to then before. I was wondering hat it means?

No rude comments please.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's an interesting situation you've got there, girl. It sounds like this guy might have a bit of a crush on you or is at least intrigued by you.

The fact that he's been going out of his way to make eye contact, smile, and even stand next to you at these dance events suggests he's trying to get your attention and possibly spark a connection.

The increased frequency of him showing up to the dances, especially the ones he wasn't attending before, is another sign that he may be trying to increase his chances of running into you.

Now, it's hard to say for sure what his exact intentions are without knowing him better. He could just be friendly and hoping to make a new friend. Or he could be interested in you romantically and trying to work up the courage to actually talk to you.

My advice would be to pay attention to his body language and tone the next time he interacts with you. Does he seem nervous or giddy? Does he try to find ways to start a conversation? Those kinds of subtle cues could give you a better idea of where his head is at.

If you're interested in getting to know him better, you could try striking up a casual conversation the next time he approaches you. See if he opens up and if there seems to be a real connection there. Just be cautious and trust your gut - if anything feels off or makes you uncomfortable, don't hesitate to politely disengage.

On the other hand, if you're not interested in him romantically, it's totally fine to maintain some distance and keep your interactions brief and friendly. You don't owe him anything, so don't feel obligated to reciprocate any advances you're not comfortable with.

The main thing is to stay confident in yourself and your boundaries. This guy's behavior may be flattering, but only engage with it as much as you feel truly comfortable doing. Wishing you the best, girl!

[ChicoFromThe305]

If he notices you from a crowd there's a possibility there he is interested